Toddlers and tantrums go together - you're lucky if your child doesn't go through that terrible twos stage.But long or aggressive temper tantrums are not necessarily normal - and may be a sign that your child is at risk of depression or a

to learn I have to spend time with Katie. She's convinced she gets less attention, but obviously Katie is younger and needs more help. Emily is just being demanding. Help me cope!'Our expert says...Lorrine Marer, 52, is a child behavioural specialist

're simply showing similar behaviour to that of your child, and it will make the situation worse.‘Tantrums are frightening,' says Clive. ‘But if a child sees the person they depend on getting angry with them, it's even more scary. Try to stay calm