them.Our expert saysSharon Charlton-Thomson, 38, is a former nanny who set up the Parent Coaching Company in Bath, Somerset, two years ago. Trained in family therapy and psychotherapy, she helps parents solve their children's emotional and behavioural

gradually, starting with one or two mornings a week, so your child is eased into a new routine.Moving house It's one of life's most stressful events. 'One way to help your child settle in is by helping her "take charge" of her room,' says Lorraine. 'Pack

mind and wants to take some control over her life.Of course, viewing the behaviour of a screaming, puce-faced child as anything other than that of a monster is very tough. But it helps to try to see the situation from your child's perspective