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How are you all getting on?

Posted: 04/05/2011 at 11:31
Ah Maddie is beautiful! I am pleased you are enjoying being a mammy xx

teething at 8 weeks

Posted: 04/05/2011 at 11:24
Olivia has been chewing on her hands a lot lately too and she is 8 weeks on Sunday coming. She hasn't been finishing all her feeds either usually 4oz but between 2-3oz. She is sticking her tongue out a lot too. I asked the gp this morning and she didn't think she was teething. On a night she is so restless till about 10. My OH was born with two front teeth so I think it is possible xx

PND, Anti-depressants...

Posted: 04/05/2011 at 11:15
Hi Girls,

Well it has been a while since I have been on here (last time was in the hospital with my birth story). I have had a tough few weeks but starting to slowly mend now. After the carry on in the hospital with breastfeeding it triggered my ibs so nothing I ate was staying in my stomach. My weight out of curiosity the day i went into hospital i was a whopping 15st 3lbs. When i got home after birth i was 14st exactly. I am now 12st 11lb. This was due to breastfeeding and my ibs I was loosing 2lb a day. I got mastitis the 2nd week I was out of hospital. I went down hill from there. I got mastitis a 2nd time and that was it.

It was health visitor I spoke to 1st and she came out to see me the same afternoon. She got me to do the Edinburgh post natal depression scale honestly. I scored 20 and they class 12 or more as high. The dr the next day put me on anti depressants. I have been on them 2 weeks now and feel much better. I still have down flat days but not as often.

My symptoms were no appetite at all, no motivation to look after myself like washing my hair make up etc which I usually do, weepy a lot, feeling like I wasn't fully bonding with Olivia and would rather have someone else feed her or change her, snappy with Andrew, just really wasn't myself. Mam is a community psychiatric nurse so recognised the symptoms and sat me down and said you need to get some help.

I am pleased I did and I am not ashamed or embarrassed about needing that help. I had a traumatic labour resulting in major surgery which I keep forgetting a csec is that, I'm a mam for the first time and nothing prepares you for that, then mastitis twice. If you were to break your leg you would go to a n e and have a plaster cast fitted so this isn't different. I guess I didn't even have the motivation to come on this website either xx

My Birth Story - Honest Account

Posted: 04/05/2011 at 10:08
Racheybaby123 - I can remember you! I haven't been on here since I was in hospital, haven't really had the time. It is nice to hear from you xxx

My Birth Story - Honest Account

Posted: 14/03/2011 at 03:19
Well it all started with my show on Wednesday morning; was pinky tinged red with wiping. I got all excited but nothing else happened labour wise till Friday. I had a dodgy headache that wouldnt shift then Wednesday night, well 4am Thursday I woke up with a migraine and couldn't lift head off pillow. Now I got checked on the Monday of that week and everything was fine. So rang midwife and instead of my gp appointment that pm she immeditely came to my home to see me. She arrived at 10am. Checked my bp which was high and she said she would need to take my notes and wee sample with her. She couldn't find babies hb straight away so i was scared. My wee was fine but still wanted to run checks at hospital - everything was fine thank god. There had been discussions about inducing me. Normal labour still on...or so I thought!

Ok so Friday pm i noticed jelly like stuff in my knickers so popped in a liner. I was waiting for my treacle sponge and custard at mam and dads and felt movement like I had peed myself - went to check and liner was clear but damp...thought I was being paranoid. Saturday morning I woke up with a fuzzy head again and lots of jelly stuff in my knickers; wiped and got it everywhere and was attached to loo with it! OH was calling it something very bloke like, typical. This continued all pm then on night (wearing period pad) I felt movement 4x over space of hour. I decided that it was time to ring hospital. Went to get checked. Yep waters had gone and because it started Friday they wanted me back first thing Sunday to induce me. We got home around 1.30 am so left me 5 hours sleep after I shaved legs etc.

I woke at 6 and could not settle again. We; mam, me and OH got to hospital at just after 8.

8.30 - I was examined and found to be 2cm already without knowing! My hindwaters hadnt gone so she broke those and told me I was 3cm! I cried at the internal as she had to pull my cervix forward.

9.30 - I was put on the drip to speed things up; tried gas and air around 10.30\11 and hated it; made me really cockly! So plodded along without. Midwife upped my drip from 2-4ml then straight to 12ml; queue the pain!

11.00 - I was given diamorphine that is where things went blank. I was spaced out but took edge off the contractions for a bit. Babies heartbeat dropped really low after every contraction. Consultant was called by this point my contractions were coming thick and fast. Internal told me i was 8cm. Consultant wanted to do a blood test on baby.

Queue madness; 2 male consultants, 1 female, my midwife and 2 others then gave me an internal where i was told i was 9cm. 5 attempts later and me bleeding heavily and in agony they got a sample! I was given a scan (unknown to me at time the reason why).

Around 12 I was told I needed an emergency c-section. I felt relief after spinal block but so scared! OH was brilliant. Olivia Grace was born at 1.53. She cried once then they worked on her for 5mins...longest period ever but thankfully battered and bruised she is fine. Had to have bloods taken for a rash but ok.

She isnt latching on yet but not giving up yet! She had to be given formula in a syringe at 3.

Reason for scan was because she had gone back to lying not head down xx

BA for Shoegal_82

Posted: 14/03/2011 at 02:27
Thanks ladies! I'm just going to attempt my BS now via free net at hospital xx

Is there many of us left...??

Posted: 11/03/2011 at 04:06
There seems to be a birth or two nearly every day now, just wondering how many of us are left??

I am getting so inpatient now after having a show on Wednesday. I really thought it would be about 24 hours or so after, tried not to get excited and I failed so now especially after yesterday feeling a bit flat xx

Is there many of us left...??

Posted: 11/03/2011 at 04:04
There seems to be a birth or two nearly every day now, just wondering how many of us are left??

I am getting so inpatient now after having a show on Wednesday. I really thought it would be about 24 hours or so after, tried not to get excited and I failed so now especially after yesterday feeling a bit flat xx

Name - Complete change of heart...

Posted: 11/03/2011 at 03:59
When we first starting making lists of names we liked we had listed for a girl, Charlotte, Grace, Olivia, Lily Rose and Tily. We kind of stuck with Charlotte Rose for a long time but had a change of heart about her middle name at the beginning of the week and preferred Olivia. Now we have three options of what we want to call her:

Charlotte Olivia,
Olivia Charlotte,
Olivia Grace or vice versa

We are going to decide when she is born if she ever decides to make an entrance lazy little missus -really taking after her mammy in that area :lol: xx

Crap Week - clearing my chest (a bit long)

Posted: 11/03/2011 at 03:54
I obviously allowed myself to get too stressed about this (see 'Show this morning update') as I ended up with high bp and checked over at hospital. I am now refusing to think about it any longer and trying to focus on our baby girl. Just wish things would start moving!! xx
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