Posted: 06/10/2008 at 08:08
my little boy was 9 weeks early weighing 3.8ozs he didnt need anybreathing assistance luckliy he was also my firts baby, i flet guilty for giving birth so early and going to and from hospital was very tiring he also got a lung infection while he was in there that was very frightening, he is now 4and a half months old and doing really well.
i felt like s##t for a while and didnt really know what to do or how i should be feeling it took me a while to bond with him and get too know him but now i know him inside and out and i love him so much he is the most gorgeous baby in the world but then im biased lol.
so dont beat yourself up about anything that has happened and take each day at a time if you need to cry , cry if you need to laugh do so and dont feel guilty about it it makes you feel alot better believe me and before you know it they will be home and you will be loving every minute of it hun.
take care and im on here most days so if you need a chat, just chat away theres also a lovely lady on here called deedee hope she doesnt mind me saying that she has helped me along the way.