any one had 5 c-sections?

Hi everyone. I have four beautiful children aged 8,6,3 and 7 months. I would love to have another child but unfortunately all my births have been c-sections. Not my choice I wanted all natural births but it didnt work out that way. I feel so sad that I may not be able to have another child and although i have looked around the internet I cant find any thing definate that says it is either too dangerous or that it is okay. I know that if i did fall pregnant I would get alot of negative reactions too.

Just wondered if any of you have any experience with this.

Many thanks

Jacqui

Early scan???

Congratulations on your wedding, I would love to go private but cant afford to , mind you I keep thinking maybe I can find the money from somewhere..., however like Breighlin said I think I would still worry even if I had one done, i lost my last baby at 9 weeks but obviously didnt know so I think I just need to get to my 12 wek scan. It just seems so far away though, i am hoping Christmas might make the weeks go faster.

The doctor did my HCG levels last week and they are rising which is a good sign for now but I am sooo stressed. I cant get excited because I am so worried about losing this one too. I have piled on weight and look about 5 months already!!! I always eat loads when I am stressed!!

I am abit worried today as well because I have been having quite horrible morning sickness this week but I have nothing today. I have never wanted to feel sick so much LOL!! Its funny all the things I would usually hate I really want to happen now!!

Let me know if you get your scan,

Good luck

Jacqui
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Early scan???

Hi Pinkorblue, i dont know if you remember me we talked alot back in feb and March because I also had a missed miscarriage, i found out at the 12 week scan that my baby had died at nine weeks just like you. I am also pregnant. I was starting to think it would never happen! I am 6 and1/2 weeks and so so nervous of losing my baby again. I tried to get an early scan because I was having really bad cramping for about two weeks but they wont do this unless I have bleeding which I havnt. My first scan is on 10th Jan which just seems forever away, i am trying to stay positive but just cant stop worrying. I wish I could have an early scan.

Let me know how you get on

Take care

Jacqui
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Random bleed

Hi KWN, I used to come on here alot but found it abit hard so havnt been back for a while, i thought I would pop my head in and saw your post. I had a mmc back in Feb and have been having random bleeding until last month. So for about six months i was spotting in between AFs and my AFs were also coming much later at 35 days instead of my usual 30 days. However it looks like it has now finally stopped and I havnt had any funny bleeding for the last month. I was soo worried about why I was bleeding and couldnt find any answers but i guess it just took my body alot of time to recover. I am 34 now so I dont know if age comes in to it?? Anyway just to reassure you that it is probably nothing and hopefully it will settle down soon by itself. Why do our bodies mess us up so much!!

Take care

Jacqui

FAO 3054

Thanks Mary it is nice to be able to talk to people who really understand how it feels. I have read from other people that once you get past the due date things seem abit better so hopefully that will be the same for me.

Hopefully my bleeding will settle down but if not I will go and get more tests done, i think i have been putting it off abit because i am scared what they may find!!

I dont really come on here anymore because we have decided not to keep 'trying' properly any more as I was getting so upset so now we will just see what happens, i am not tracking my dates or anything any more.

I will keep in touch though

take care

Jacqui
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FAO 3054

Hi Mary, I remember you, sorry i didnt reply earlier, i dont come on here much any more, like you said I find it really hard seeing everyone get their BFP and leaving me behind. It was our due date this weekend and i am really struggling to cope, i feel like i cant talk to anyone, nobody seems to remember and i dont feel like i can bring it up. I talk to my hubby and cry alot to him but sometimes i feel even he is getting fed up with it now. I am just so gutted that i am not pregnant again , i really thought that by my due date i would be.

Also so many of my friends who were trying around the same time as me have either now had their baby or are pregnant.

I feel like it is never going to happen. As for my mid cycle bleeding i had to book an appointment for a smear test so i though i would talk to them then and see what they say. I really hope it is not something like you had but I do worry about it.

Take care

Jacqui
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I am having a really tough few days .....

Hi i just wanted to tell you i understand too, my baby was due this weekend and i feel so so sad, i am constantly crying and feel that i cant talk to anyone about it. No one seems to remember except my mum and hubby and i just feel devastated that i am not pregnant again . I really thought i would fall pregnant straight away because with my other children i fell quickly but i am now 6 months in to trying and nothing happening. I am gutted and cant help imagining what it would have been like if I had a new born baby now.

Also when we were planning to try for a baby which was 1 Aug last year there were a big group of us all talking about it at the same time. All of them have now either had their baby or are pregnan, i am the only one left now and i feel so jealous, i try to be happy for them and i hate the way i feel but i just cant help it.

I truly understand how you feel, take care, big hugs, your time will come

Jacqui
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FAO 3054

Thanks 3054 ive sent you an email now so you will have my address too

Take care

Jacqui
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FAO 3054

Hi 3054, i was going to PM you my email but i dont know how to??

any ideas

Jacqui
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FAO 3054

It was the end of this month that our baby was due and i have been having a real bad time coming to terms with it recently. so we have decided to stop 'trying' now at least until Christmas and then see how we feel. Me and hunny have been arguing loads over it as I get really frustrated if I think i am ovulating and we dont end up BDing. so we are going to go back to BD'ing for fun and not becuase of what day it is. We arent going to use anything so there will still be the chance i could fall pregnant but we will just see what happens.

So i am not going to be coming on here much anymore, probably just checking in every now and then to see how everyone is.

If you want my email address to keep in touch let me know

Jacqui
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