Posted: 16/03/2011 at 06:43
Hi Tara I think you are incredibly unfair to come on here and judge how people feel when finding out comething is wrong with your child!!
I'm very sorry that others feeling upsets you but who the hell are you to judge! every situation is different i dont want to sound rude but being deaf yourself you expected that you children wuld have similar problems for us the diagnosis was a huge shock which is why you feel a sense of devestation!
Your comment about making the effort with sign language is a joke as well, I have chosen NOT to introduce sign language yet with my son as he was implanted with cochlears so young and wanted him to hconcentrate on listening and speaking first! your comment makes out that we cant be bothered and lazy.
I cant stand people like you and yes im coming across as rude and willnever dream of that up until now but everyone comes on here for support not to be made to feel like crap for having natural feelings!!!!
My son is hard work and is completeley different to his siblings but doesnt mean he is loved any less and in fact has more attention than the others do!