ivana


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Ivana

Posted: 22/12/2011 at 10:04
hi again, like your mum i've developed the lymphoedema and am now fighting an infection - narrowly avoided spending another x-mas in hospital. Hope your mum is alright. Today is the happiest day for a long, long, long while - I'M OFFICIALLY IN REMISSION - no cancerous abnormalities found on the mammogram!!! Have a merry christmas and a very happy and healthy New Year. xx

Ivana

Posted: 02/10/2011 at 16:20
thank you, hope your mum is doing well! I was told by one of the breast care nurses somewhere at the beginning that I have 2 options : 1/ curl up in the corner and cry - it still won't change a thing and the diagnosis is going to be the same; 2/ get up, face it, laugh about it and say to myself I've been here longer than this thing, so I have a right to stay! - the best piece of advice for anyone in my/your mums position. when at hospital for my last op, i met another lady (my age - 39) with the same cancer, same treatment - apart from the fact she opted for mastectomy and reconstructive surgery - we had such a good laugh, the staff and patients on the ward could not believe we were one step away from terminal diagnosis at our age - she was flashing her new boobs at everyone (she used to have a large bust, now a lovely cup B). We asked if we can take our ovaries home in a jar (Paula was getting a bit bored of showing her boobs to everyone) to put on our mantelpieces - they wouldn't let us spoilsports! if you've met her, she is one hell of a woman, in the gym every day throughout her chemo, got her 3 kids to shave her hair off (14, 11 and 7 year old) to whatever they wanted it to be at the start of chemo, barrell of laugh.... we're meeting up with our families just before x-mas. all the best to you and your mum xx

Ivana

Posted: 19/09/2011 at 16:33
Hi, I haven't been on here for absolutely ages too! Thanks for asking after me - got a message through on facebook that you posted. Yeah, I'm now at the end of my treatment - it was a far cry from walk in the park, may I say! As you know I had a lumpectomy in November last year with axillary nodes removal (lymph nodes). The axillary wound then got infected, so had to go back to hospital for a few days for IV antibiotics. Chemo started in December - 9 days after the first course I went into neutropenic sepsis and was admitted on x-mas eve to oncology ward for 5 days. In January my breast wound opened up due to fluid collection and the chemo had to be stopped and I was put on negative pressure treatment - vacuum pump draining the fluid from the wound 24/7 for 5 weeks. After that I restarted the chemo, only to go into neutropenic sepsis again in March - another admission, after which my consultant agreed to reduce the dose by 20%, which had proved to be a fantastic move - no more complications or admissions. Finished chemo 23rd May, after that I undergone 4 weeks of everyday radiotherapy. As my cancer is feeding on eastrogen, they had put me on a drug called Tamoxifen (the only drug they can give pre-menopausal women), to which I developed an allergic reaction (just my luck!) and had to stop it - the blood test comfirmed that my ovaries are showing signs of rapid recovery just a month after the chemo, so decision was made and I had my ovaries removed 11 days ago. So that's a "short" story covering a very, very, very long year in our lives!!! I'm still off sick (cannot drive at the moment and our occupational health are insisting on me staying signed off until New Year, which I'm really not happy about, as bar 5 weeks between my maternity leave and me being signed off I'll be at home for over 2 years at the end of it and I might just pull my newly grown grey hair out!!!lol But the sun is shining and the oophorectomy was the LAST bit of treatment, so I'm happy. Got Oncology follow up in November with a breast clinic 1 year follow up 7th December, so fingers crossed I'll get "1 year survivor badge!"
Hope you're ok xx

How much does your LO weigh now?

Posted: 01/03/2011 at 15:02
Jess is now 27lbs 8oz at 13 1/2 months - going along the 99th centile, which hey ho, it is expected of our kids (Sam was actually above the chart!!!) Our backs are killing us, she still wakes up for a bottle as she is massively hungry, eats for England, Wales and Scotland (and Slovakia) during the day, but needs a top up during the night!!!! xx

Good luck Piggypops

Posted: 01/03/2011 at 13:48
aww, congratulations, hope all goes well xx having one of each is brilliant!!! xx

BA for honeypops and..........

Posted: 01/03/2011 at 13:46
congratulations, glad everything went well xx

Happy 1st Birthday Amber & Evie Lily Mae

Posted: 21/01/2011 at 15:38
happy birthday girls, hope you had a fabulous day xx

Happy belated 1st Birthday Hannah & Sasha

Posted: 21/01/2011 at 15:37
happy belated birthday girls, hope you both had a fantastic day! xx

Biting

Posted: 20/01/2011 at 04:08
Jess has bit my oh's leg the other day, but I think she'll think about doing it again twice after yesterday, when a little boy bit her on her cheek - never seen so many "accident" forms and warning forms flying around the nursery!lol. The little boys' grandfather who came to pick him up didn't know how to appologise enough - but all of us think it was just a kiss gone wrong between them. x

BFP!!

Posted: 13/01/2011 at 11:31
congratulations! very exciting, hope it all goes well!!! x
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