Posted: Today at 12:41
Hey Flik
We are also trying for our second, and I agree, it is so different to last time! I also have irregular periods (nothing like yours though), and so I am struggling to decide when to test. We are in month one of trying, and I did a test yesterday which was a BFN. If AF hasn't arrived by Sunday then I will do another test then 
I am also friends with a group of ladies off here from my first dd, but like you wanted to meet some other people 
Good luck to you!
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