oh hun,iam sure he will come round to liking the idea of baby no 2,your only 5wks pregnant so its still probably a shock to him,give him some time,i think woman bond more instant becouse we have the baby growing inside of us and we feel everything and men dont,so just try and give him some time,as reagrds to coping,i dont think there is any wise words,you just do,you find a way,iam a sahm,i have 3 kiddies,a 4 year old and twins who are 2,its hard but you manage,hope things get better soon