This is a joke...... I am leaving the site - Trying for a baby

K-lou

18/11/2008 at 07:57

Months ago, somebody I worked with had upset me when he overheard part of a conversation I had with a work friend. I posted it on here and we all had a little moan about it and that was my way of venting...

This morning i get a call from this person telling me somebody has printed out the whole post that was wrote and has sent it to his work address. I don;t have any friends who knows I come on here. I did mention his name but not where I worked, which to me means somebody on this site who emails me and has my email address has done this.

I am going to be leaving this site and this is the second time something like this has happened t me on here the first being the problems I had with FF and my charts. I am gutted and hurt that anybody could do that not only now does he know all that I have said about him, he now knows i am trying for a baby and everything little detail I have put on here.

Karen

[Modified by: K-lou on 18 November 2008 12:12:21 ]

ashyashy1986 Platinum member

18/11/2008 at 08:00

awww K-lou that terrible, you must be so upset, understandably !!!! it would be a real shame if you leave the site you have been such a help to everyone with your advice and kind words!

ashy xx:cry:

-Samiana-

18/11/2008 at 08:00

Yur f*cking kidding, I don't know what to say! Who would do such a sh*t thing! I remember his first name, but did you even post his last? How would someone find out where he works now! Was it him that called you? x

libby6484

18/11/2008 at 08:01

I'm so sorry K-lou i can't belive someone has done that. It must be horrible if you do ecide to leave you will be greaty missed. Good luck with everything and i' be watching out for your bfp annoucment on facebook good luck again hun x x x

akaladyk

18/11/2008 at 08:02

OH my god that is soul destroying, this is such an intimate site!!! I would feel violated also if someone did this, i talk so personally one here!! Oh my, I guess because you pic is on here it may be someone who recognised you!!!

This site wont be the same without you and if the a$$hole who is doing this is reading, you are not welcome, this is a support site, go away!!!

K-lou you will be missed, maybe set up a new log in without a pic if you just want to come occasionally, you poor thing, that is hideous!!!

mrssmith69 Platinum member

18/11/2008 at 08:03

My god i did not no that could happen not sure what i want to metion anymore as don't want everybody noing my business its great on here as no one knows me so i thought anyway!

Ladywithalittleboy Platinum member

18/11/2008 at 08:05

That is disgusting ! The whole idea of this forum is for privacy !!! I can't believe someone would do that !!! I don't believe for a minute it would be a regular user - more likely someone who joined in order to do that one thing. I really feel for you hun - you must be gutted !

Please don't leave the site - you are such a source of help and comfort to everyone - where would we all be without you !

Is there anyone at work that could access your system when you are not at your desk - like when you nip to the loo ??? It's shocking that they have no respect for your privacy.

Please don't go - you would be so missed !!! xxxx

grudie

18/11/2008 at 08:05

OMG that is terrible,who would do such a thing to you,as far as i'm aware everybody loves you and always looks out for you

so sad you feel you have to leave,i no we havnt spoke very much but i find that so shocking,and would have loved to see the day you got your BFP

i think i speak for everyone when i say you will def be missed and i can only presume the same as you with your details!

shocking

Love is like peeing your pants....everyone can see it but only you can feel the warmth TTC 4 LONG YEARS

KimmyS84

18/11/2008 at 08:05

Oh no, what a low thing to do! I remember the incident you mentioned, but it seems like such a long time ago for someone to just suddenly do this

What a shame that this has made you feel like you have to leave. I totally understand why you want to- I would want to aswell

What a horrible thought that he now knows all of your innermost thoughts

So sorry to see you go- you have been invaluable to all the girls on here

Please please please come back when you get your BFP- we would all really want to know how you are getting on

xx

Bean 1- Ectopic Sept. 2008 Bean 2- Beautiful DD born 30/7/09 Bean 3- MC May 2011 Bean 4- DS due 27/6/12

PurpleSox_LS Platinum member

18/11/2008 at 08:08

Oh my God, I cant believe someone has done that to you!! What the hell is going on with that person, are they jealous that you are a popular member that everyone loves????

Sorry K-Lou cant imagine what you are going through. Makes me a little bit more careful of what I say on here from now on.

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mummyGG

18/11/2008 at 08:09

omg this is awful!

Why wld someone do this?

What do they gain from it???

LizzieJ2

18/11/2008 at 08:09

What an awful thing to happen. I hope that you don't leave as this site is obviously a big support to you, as you are a big support and font of knowledge to everyone that comes on here. I have been stalked before by a friend on forums so I am now very restricted with any personal details I give out as I know how violating it feels.
xx

K-lou

18/11/2008 at 08:10

Because I said he works with me and some people on here have my work email address you only need to look it up on line to see where that person works. I never said his surname. i can't trust anybody on here anymore. i have put some much info on here about me and somebody has just truly fucked me over.

-Samiana-

18/11/2008 at 08:13

Oh K, I don't know what else to say I'm so sorry that this has happened to you again. We'll be very sad to see you go, you have to be the most popular poster on here!

grudie

18/11/2008 at 08:14

so sorry

Love is like peeing your pants....everyone can see it but only you can feel the warmth TTC 4 LONG YEARS

hayles08

18/11/2008 at 08:14

Gosh K-Lou don't know what to say!! Its just so scary that someone can do that. I was thinking the same thing about anyone being able to access your computer while you nip the loo or something?

We haven't really spoke on here but always read your posts your like the queen bee of this forum.

Its made me think twice about having my photo on here. Its a shame that one shit staring person can ruin it for the rest of us.

Hope you find out who it is!!
xx

akaladyk

18/11/2008 at 08:15

K-Lou is there anyway you can find out who did it? who told you he got sent it? can they maybe find out?

libby6484

18/11/2008 at 08:16

If you wanted to stay can't you change your email address and isn't there a way of stoping people being abe to email you and finding out these detais. Sorry hun you will be sadly missed i can't belive someone would it ike one of the other girls said what do they have to gain.

blahhhh123 Platinum member

18/11/2008 at 08:16

I think it is more likely that someone from your work maybe uses this site too and recognised you so did this?
I used to use a wedding chat room all the time and as it was such a popular site I was recognised by people I had gone to school with/worked with or whatever. They only have to click on 'My Other Topics' to see what you are writing about.
Still don't know why they would want to do it though!
I am now very careful not to reveal anything too personal.
xx

xlittlemissx Platinum member

18/11/2008 at 08:17

this is absolutely awful. I completely understand your anger. Could it be that maybe your IT dept has someone found out this site and they have emailed it to him?
Please dont go we will all miss you very much
x