This is a joke...... I am leaving the site

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18/11/2008 at 08:18
It has to be somebody on here, this post was done months ago so it can;t be somebody who came on here and just found it you know. They actually looked for it??

It makes me feel like who can I trust i am goign to get rid of all the friends i have made on here from my face book account because i have no idea who has done it and it's somebody very eveil. I don;t want that perosn seeing more details of me on my face book.

18/11/2008 at 08:18
I am now trying to work out how to remove my pic as this has really worried me
18/11/2008 at 08:20
Bloody hell that is f**king S**t!! I cant believe anyone can do something so nasty to someone on a site like this - I can understand how wound up and upset you must feel. I like to think you can trust people on here cos we're all going through the same thing and there's no reason for any malice - no one on here deserves this least of all you!
Whoever it is - you know who you are - youre and idiot - messing with peoples feelings like this - they should be the ones leaving not you.
I hope you work something out - I dont think you should be made to feel like you need to leave - its not fair on you. I hope webmaster or someone works out who it is with your and our help so we can get them off - not you!
xx
18/11/2008 at 08:23
I think it is disgusting that someone would do this on such a personal site, i am new to this and so don't know you like the other ladies but i think it would be sad if you left, i understand it will be hard to trust the site now tho.

Jstar
18/11/2008 at 08:28
K, I would completely understand if you didn't want to be fb freinds anymore :cry: but instead you could just let us BE girls see a limited profile. That way we can still message you and vice versa, but you wont be giving away anything too personal ;(
18/11/2008 at 08:30
OMG that is just so awful!!! You have been so supportive of everyone, i can't believe anyone would do that to you, its just terrible. Your support is invaluable, you will be so missed K-lou!!! You have given me some wonderful advice and over the last couple of weeks, and I know others will miss you! God, its so awful thinking you can be betrayed like that, what kind of asshole would do that!!!! No doubt they are reading this and other posts you have made - (whoever you are you evil -jerk you need help!!!)

We all write such intimate stuff on here, that is so incredibly personal to ourselves, it is so hard to believe someone can do that!! K-Lou, it is so sad that you have made some good friends through this site and will now lose them as you can't trust anyone.

When you get you BFP please come back and let us all know.... Good luck sweetie for everything, and so so sorry to hear this has happened to you!
debbie xxxx
18/11/2008 at 08:30
I have no idea how to do that, can you see my email address on here?? if you look me up or my info?

I just want to close this whole account down I have emailed the web ed

K xx
18/11/2008 at 08:31
thats terrible. i used another forum when i had my son and left because things like that happened. someone sent copies of a post where a girl was moaning about her mum to the mum and another girl had her wedding nearly cancelled.

thought this one might of been better.
18/11/2008 at 08:31
I can't believe it, I'm not surprised you're upset. How has he reacted? Are things going to ok with the two of you at work?

You used to get weird stuff like this on the wedding forum, people cancelling each other's bookings and stuff, really weird that's why I stopped going on there but this is the first of it's kind I've heard on here.

It seems a shame after so many posts to be forced off, like some of the ladies said, perhaps you could start from scratch with a new name but then why should you??

I hope you get to the bottom of it xx
18/11/2008 at 08:33
the only things we see is the other topic you have made,so no email address to be seen,so its somebody who had it before,when was the last time you gave it out,i couldnt even tell you where you work just that guys first name

Love is like peeing your pants....everyone can see it but only you can feel the warmth TTC 4 LONG YEARS
18/11/2008 at 08:33
I understand you leaving here hun and removing us from fb as you don't know who you can trust but when you get your bfp and decide to tell people if you could let us all know as it wil be fantatic when you do get your bfp as you have help and given so much adv to all of us on here i understand you might not say until you start telling people as well cause you wouldn't want that coming out earlie as well x
18/11/2008 at 08:34
Gosh that is crap hun.
Please don't feel you have to go, can you set up a yahoo account and a new user name. We would soon be able to tell who you were, or you could stay annonymous. And none of your personal work details would be given out.

Its a real shame if you feel forced out because one person is vindictive.

I do wonder if its someone you work with, or maybe him himself though.

Sending you big hugs, and I am sure you will find the answers
18/11/2008 at 08:35
cant you set up another account hun? new name no pic?

I would of thought we would keep eachothers confidences, im really sick that someone could do that to you klou xxx

good luck hunni x if you want to send me an email or something let me know xxx i will really miss you xxxxxxx
18/11/2008 at 08:35
That is sooo shocking, my heart is actually thumping I am so mad for you!
I hope the person who did it reads these posts and realises that they are an evil witch!!
Why don't you come back on with a different name and avatar, I'm sure all the regulars will work out who you are before long but at least your colleague won't be able to guess?
xxx
18/11/2008 at 08:38
Karen, I am so sorry, I cannot believe this has happened to you. What sad lives some people lead.

Do any of your work colleagues know you use this site?

It seems too complicated for it to be someone on here as unless it was someone you already email how would they have his or your address? I don't ever remember you giving out your companies name?

Also you could find out where it was posted from by the post mark on the envelope which would narrow it down.

Don't leave though, everyone will miss you and I will be said not to share your BFP with you when you get it x

Army wife - Support our Forces xx
18/11/2008 at 08:40
oh klou hunn i cant believe this has happened again there is some really sad and pathetic people out there you are in all our hearts and we hope you get your bfp soon. i hope you decide to stay but understand if you decide to leave take care chick
claire x

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18/11/2008 at 08:40
omfg k lou.that is sooo shit.and the saddo that has done that to you,they obviously have nothing better to do with there time.like someone else said this is such a shame because we are all a fantastic support network for each other.And because things are so personal on here completely understand you want to leave BUT we will all really really miss you.and if you do go k please come back and let us know when you get your bfp.and to whoever has done this your such a loser,sod off and get a life.
18/11/2008 at 08:41
I think we all need to be very careful ladies, and perhaps personal photos on avators aren't the best idea.

I used to have one up on the wedding forum but one of my friends googled 'changing name on passport' and one of my posts came up and she recognised me. No harm was done, she just mentioned it in passing and I don't think she'd have thought to search 'my other topics' but I felt embarrassed and if she'd have been malicious or if it was a more personal post or indeed a rant about someone it could've been a lot worse.

Again K-Lou I'm so sorry for you, I just think we all need to learn from this and not reveal our names, work places or have a photo against every post.

L xx
18/11/2008 at 08:41
Hi K-lou, that is terrible news, I havent been posting here long but already feel like I know you and you will be missed. I get concerned that my it guys willbe able to see what sites I have gone on at work and possibly they look at your topics and can see what you said about the other person. Who knows but I can understand why you have lost confidence, ttc is hard enough.
You are bang on my cycle too so you would have been a great support to me at testng time and I for you. I hope you come back under a different name and avtar, we are sure to gues who you are.
Good luck and if you dont come back I hope you post and let us know when you get your BFP
Good luck babe and baby dust to you xx
18/11/2008 at 08:41
I am that you will be leaving and i find it disturbing that someone would do this sort of thing. I thought that we were all on here for the same reason - to help eachother out not stitch eachother up. I just looked at your profile and you cant see your email address so it is someone that you talk to over email.
I would be gutted if this happened to me and it will make me more wary in the future about how much personal information that i put down about myself and who i accept on Facebook as my friend.

Whoever has done this will read this and i think they should be disgusted with themselves and as someone else said they are not welcome.

Good luck in getting your BFP xx
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