Hi ladies,

thank you all for your pma! I did a test yesterday bought a duo pack always a mistake! and got another BFN. Hubby and I had another heart to heart about it and perhaps I am starting to drive myself a little mad! We have lots of things to look forward to- moving house in August and my course finishing in July and all I can focus on it TTC! It is like its a project and I will not rest until it happens. When AF is here, I wish the time away waiting for Ov and then wish the 2ww away waiting for AF or the elusive BFP! I do not want it to ruin our relationship! it is even more tricky to get my positive without my man lol! All jokes aside though AF has just arrived and that is me out. I am going to take some time away form here and focus on other things and maybe I will be chatting to all you wonderful ladies soon. Thank you all for your support and kind words you really are a life line! I will still be stalking now and again so keep those lovely little beans coming!

All the best and sending you oodles of baby dust!

Jo x

Hey hey hey ladies, long time no speak.

Loopy so happy to hear all is going well so far and fingers crossed it does happen first time.Good news from me, not a BFP but we are moving out on 26th May into our first home together so really looking forward to that. As for this month I do not know where I am and when AF is due as not been tracking it and refuse to look at my phone to see when af is due. If she arrives she arrives and if not and I notice its ages I will test. no symptoms I don't think but then again I have not been spotting them so who knows. Only time will tell. Oh and by the way if the moderators are still looking, I am not able to post on my phone for some reason it just will not bring up my options to type in anything, so can only post on laptop. i have been reading on phone though occasionally but this month I have just taken it easy and chilled.

Sorry to everyone who AF got and fingers crossed for next time.

Messy xxx

Hehe, well done Mummy060409! You're certainly determind this month!

Nevada-doodles - hope you get your BFP soon! And really hope AF doesn't turn up.

We're just about to go out to view a flat, but just wanted to update you ladies; my temp is alllll over the place, I have no idea if I've ovulated or when I will ovulate. Time will tell, as with everything.

Hope you're all well

xxx

Sorry to g/c, I'm sorry Joey139! We'll be looking forward to you coming back to us with a BFP very soon. Sending you lots of PMA xxx

Fingers crossed, nevada-doodles!

My temp still has me baffled. Hmmm, no idea what's going on!

For anyone that was wondering, the flat viewing went well, we're thinking about putting an offer in! Exciting times.

xxx

When are you going to test, nevada-doodles?

Reaaaally hoping this is it for you!

xxx

Joey - Hope you get the break you need. This ttc can really take over and it is so easy to become obsessed. My DH said a thousand times to relax and it will happen. I had some reflexology the month to try and relax and guess what! bingo. Good luck x

Messy - lovely to hear from you. Glad your chilling out this month and taking it easy. If you can avoid looking at phone then fab. It would be a wonderful surprise that way. I hope your move goes smoothly

mummy060409 - wow thats stamina for you. Im impressed! please take a break soon before you 'break' your man lol

SammyHam - hope your viewing wentok.  Post your chart if you can and we can try and help xx

Rosapenny - yey for smily face and well time bfp bding x x

Nevade doodles - oh you have me excited!! have everything crossed

Loopy - hows the 2 ww treatin you hun? Hope your ok x

AFM am 6 w + 4 d. Am exhausted  but also full of a viral bug. Coughing up some crap and feeling gererally sorry for myself.  Dont mind the pg symptoms just wish the cold would buzz off! 

Sorry to anyone i missed x x x

Sorry to hear you're suffering, Blue_Star. Hope you start to feel better soon.

Thanks. I think it's just unusual because I tested earlier (or later) than usual. Will see what it does in the morning. I'm sure it'll all make sense soon. Last month it was so easy to understand! xxx Thanks again for your help xx

I came on here this morning (its almost 11am here in Aus) thinking I would tell you all about my first accupuncture appointment and her plans for me next cycle but...

I tested this morning at 10dpo and BFP!!!!!

all i could do was cry and shake for a few minutes, til i called DH at work and told him and he started tearing up too... so excited but don't want to get to excited cuz its still SO early. Do have to keep checking to make sure the line is still there, that I didn't just make it up. I tested on an internet cheapie yesterday and was tilting it back and forth thinking i could see some shadow of a line but decided it prob wasn't there but would test with FR this morning. I also tested with another internet cheapie which has still only got a faint faint faint line but the FR is more clear. Light, but still there.

OK, now I'll go back and read all the other posts I've missed

bluestar- great to hear you've got an early scan, think i will be doing that too. glad your parents were so thrilled to. and hope the bug of yours gets lost!

joey- don't know if you will see this but i hope you stepping away is just what you need. I think everyone on here understands just how consuming ttc can be. xx

messy- lovely that you've got a nice distraction to keepyou away from that phone.

nevada- hope af stays away for you, did you test?? fingers crossed for you!

mummy-- how are you faring with your marathon month? good on you, just dont pull any muscles lol

sammyham- i had a look at your chart too and it does seem a little unusual. have you been dtd in case you have ov'd?? it doesn't look to me as though you have yet as you need three temps that are higher than your previous few and your cd16 drops back down to near the others. also if you still have some cm it would suggest ov is still to come (although that never seems true for me).  time will tell of course but just keep temping and bd'ing!