Hey All!
Thanks for messages!Still disappointed but also suffering v badly from flu so off work today.Not helping with my general teariness.
Oddly I'm glad AF has started because the flu is making me v nauseous,bad back pain and my little girl flopped down quite hard on my chest the other morning so i have sore boobs,if I hadn't started I'd be symptom spotting even more than usual!

Still quite concerned about all this spotting though,it's still 3 days before my period,spotting for 4 whole days before you start can't be good can it?!
Any ideas anyone?

I'm now on day 27, am going to leave it until day 34 (Monday 2nd July) to give my irregular cycles chance to mess around, then I might test. We've bd on days 9, 11, 15, 21, and 24, so have meissed a few days in the middle, but don't know when I ovulated so your guess is as good as mine. I've got some opks for next month so might be able to pinpoint it a bit better then. Fingers crossed to all those in the 2ww.

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Nice to see you back on here today schoonko07 x hope you feel better soon x maybe worth checking with your GP I've never had spotting before during or after AF so not much help I'm afraid!

Yep I never had it until after I stopped feeding my little girl,I started taking agnus castus which helped for one month and then it came back.I've had my progesterone checked on day 21 and am due another test on day 28 (thursday).

Hopefully that will give me a better idea if there's a problem!

Yes defo well hopefully you can get it sorted or at least get some answers as to why it's happening x

Ok,something really weird has happened.Last night I started to get really sore ribs and before I got into bed my nipples went really dark (sorry way tmi!).Anyway I thought,this is weird,this isn't a flu thing.The rib thing could be of course but I've never had it from flu before and I did have it when pregnant.The pain had gone by this morning and my nipples didn't look so dark but I am still only spotting and I thought one last POAS just to double check.Now it is very faint but there's no holding it up to the light and squinting to see it,there is a very faint but there and pink not evap second line.
I'm not sure that I quite believe it's positive as I'm still spotting so still thinking full blown AF on way but could it be?
AF due Thursday and with my last pregnancy I never got a positive until 1 day before my AF and from memory it was extremely faint too.I had implantation bleeding with my first but it was literally like a little streak and only lasted a day.There is still spotting when I wipe this morning and this will be day three if it continues today.
Am I still in with a chance?!?Still off work today as still recuperating from flu but now obv because of the tiny second line I'm wondering if nit all of my symptoms are just flu??
Thinking about it some of them I def remember from first time round-
very emotional-crying at p&g ads,cried at handy manny the other day and reading the large family to dd (later put down to pms but pms usually makes me cross not weepy)
sore nipples-could be because of dd flopping back on chest though
darkened nipples last night-can't explain this one
Horrible taste in mouth over weekend-this could be flu related

Hmmmmm...sorry this is so long just I'm wondering whether I'm now back in the game??

How odd schoonko07? Some of these symptoms would tell me your still in the game Hun and the fact that 2nd line is starting to show it's face you never know I really hope you are and wish you all the luck! Only 48hrs till AF due now I'm still getting waves of sickness throughout day stomach feels bit tight still had a few tweaks and twinges on right and left side and I did have funny taste in mouth for one day over weekend my appetite is coming in surges from gorging myself to nothing I'm not convinced but I guess we'll see what happens Thurs I'm trying reverse physcology on myself so telling myself I'm not then it will be a lovely surprise if I am lol x

Well Dollie it sounds like you have a lot of promising signs.You said you were feeling congested as well,which although can be for a million reasons I had in early pregnancy too,plus waves of sickness and funny taste,i'd say those are pretty strong indicators!
Ooh how exciting!!

Well we've done all we can do, i'm now hjn the dreaded 2ww

Oh goodness it's exciting and nerve wracking all wrapped into one for some bizarre reason I've been walking round on cloud 9 with a silly grin on my face whereas I'm normally a moody mare just before AF!
I hope we've done it this month schoonko07 x

Good luck Nevada-doodles I'm in the 48hr till AF due club! Not that I'm counting down or anything!

Haha dollie doodle- nobody counts the days do they?

Two weeks will go fast for me i'm so busy at work won't have time to think about it

Me too,what a difference a day makes.Thing is I'm normally a grumpy mare before AF but I haven't been at all this month,a weepy mess yes but no bad mood.48 hours to go!,Aaaah!!

Good luck nevada doodles!!

That's good keep the mind busy! I just want to get to Thurs see if I have a visitor then I know what I'm doing for July!

Oooh schoonk07, it does sound like you are still in with a chance. Keep us updated! FC. Well I guess that gives me a spark of hope. I was just about to come on here and say I think I'm out of the game. I know I've tested way too early (AF due sat) but it's a very definite BFN and now all my 'phantom' / 'wishful thinking' symptoms have gone. I know it's only my first month of trying but in the past I've seen friends 'plan' summer babies or 'plan' age gaps and they've gone on to get their wishes. It's never been like that for me with MC's & prolonged TTC so this time I thought that maybe it would be my turn to have it easy and just what I wished for. Oh well! X

Fingers crossed Beanie!
Ok so another update,rib pain back with a vengeance,then had to go up bathroom thinking had to throw up,thankfully didn't but it was the exact same feeling as I had with my dd.So I just knew.Searched in back of bathroom cupboard and had a sainsbury's digital. It says takes 3 mins for result,less than a minute later flashed up PREGNANT and not with fmu!So hang on in there ladies I was soooo certain I was out at the weekend,just keep the faith and say a little prayer and you never know!

I'm PREGNANT!!!!!!!!!!!! BFP today, 10dpo!! x

Fantastic news both of you!! Have you worked out due dates yet???!!! I'll try and be patient x

March 10th for me I think... x

OMG! You did it schoonko07! I'm sooooo happy for you Hun x huge congratulations to you too Louisa I hope you both have a happy and healthy 9mths I hope I join you soon ladies x