Hi Mummy060409,

I feel exactly the same as you, up one minute and down the next!! 

I guess we just have to stay positive, enjoy life and take each day as it comes!! 

Good luck, I hope you get your bfp very soon

We're on month 12, DD took 22 months to conceive so I wasn't expecting it to happen quickly. I do have times of feeling very down and to the point of desperation as I just wish there was something I could do. Looking back now though I am so glad it didn't happen immediatley for us, DD is such good fun and I love the special time we spend together, I almost feel as though I'd be missing out with her if I had a newborn already - It's my way of trying to put a positive spin on it anyway! 

Like you say I feel almost guilty at not 'giving' my DD a brother or sister, she is baby crazy and she'll make a fab big sister!

Good luck and lots of babydust to you xx

Thanks for your replies ladies, its nice to know im not alone.

Lolopop im exactly the same thinking, im glad ive had all this time with dd and given her all my attention although now im really ready to have another and she is also baby crazy and wants a baby bro or sis!

Fc crossed for a july bfp for us all

XXX

hi ladies, I'm reading that book too!!

On to month 10 for us; I went to docs and she said stop worrying about it and it will happen!!  

For this month I'm not going to track what day I'm on and just bd more especially around ov time. Last month went so slow and the 2ww was horrendous so distraction and getting on with life is my mission, and more bd'ing instead of hoping we've cracked and then realising we might have missed a crucial day!!

good luck ladies xx

Cheer up Deeders, you are not letting anyone down and you are certainly not a faliure, dont think like that, it WILL happen and you will both be fab parents together, try not to let it get you down and i know form experience that is sooo easier said than done!Try to focus on other things if you can , this is the first month that I have just gone with it, been relaxed and apart from a blip other morn when hubby couldnt "perfom" bless him, we 've had a nice relaxed approach to dtd as and when we wanted which really helped us both, Im about to start the 2ww now.... XX