It took 21 months tc our son. I think it took so long because i was underweight also because i got myself stressed out . we are ttc again and have only been trying ttc for 3 months and i am feeling really stressed out already . Has this happened to anyone else ? If so how can i stop it.

i think pma is the main ingredient. try not to worry and keep yourself busy
are u still under weigh, can i be cheeky and ask how much u do/did weigh?xxx

It's so hard, but you have to not let it take over your life. If you know when you ov from pain or ewcm, then maybe don't actually count CD's. BD because you want to, as well as because it is the right time in your cycle. Make sure you have plans for the 2ww, to keep you occupied.

I hope you crack it, good luck getting your bfp. xx

I get a stressed as the next person although I try so hard not to. Keeping occupied is the best thing for me and if you find yourself thinking about ttc I try and turn the thoughts inwards and make it a visualization session.
I really hope you don't have to wait so long this time.

Good luck. x x

thank you so much for all your tips will certainly keep myself busy this time . think I'll go camping and concerntrate on organising that this month.
When we tc our son my weight was just over 10 and a half stone , i,m just under 6ft and all though my weight was at the lower end of bmi i was to thin as i have a large frame . my ovulation stopped. and so i was put on clomid to kick start ovulation . Im now weighing 14st and drs have tested and i am now ovulating on my own. very very pleased just need to sort my stress out. I would like to wish every one good luck and a bfp real soon .