Please don't worry Pregnant Lady, my oh was very worried that he wouldn't find me attractive when I got bigger and I know to begin with he was worried about sex hurting the baby, but Kimmi is right, you should try talking to him about it. He probably has some very mixed up feelings right now too. I know my oh has had some issues about feeling a bit left out during my pregnancy. He's been very insistent about coming to all the midwife appointments with me and all the scans. I've had a few time where all the hormones have got the better of me, and several times I've ended up crying but not really knowing why, and he gets very frustrated with me. Mostly out of worry that something might be wrong that I'm not telling him. It's such a hugely emotional and life changing time for both of you and I know I've been guilty sometimes of thinking it's all about me because i'm the one growing the baby, but sometimes you have to stop and remember that it took 2 of you to make it, and let him help you sometimes. Men need things explaining and they want to be able to find a solution for everything, so if you just tell him that sometimes you might just be upset for no reason and the best thing he can do to help you is give you a big hug and run you a bath or something, it might be easier for both of you. Good luck hun, there is always someone on here with some friendly words to cheer you up x x
