hi i dont no if there is any one out there who can give me any advice as they have been though it before , i wasnt with my partner for long before i fell pregnant however both very delighted and have been looking forward to it ever since we have found out im now 21 weeks we decided that it would be best for him to move to my area we live 150 miles aprart for housing reasons he lives london i live in dorset so its a nicer area to bring up our baby we feel

however we havnt seen each other for a couple weeks now and ive been gettign emotional as so much has happened since grown a bump and can now feel bumps movements but now hes seems very off with me we had our 1st argument which turns out is that hes anxious about moving here as its a big change since all he has known is with his friends and family and london i understand this and know its daunting especially having to make new friends and get to know the area but i no the baby will make him even more happy its just i cant help feel that there something eles or he is just generally really anxious by the whole thing i dont want to say to him that i think he could be cheating and

im sure most of you are thinking that me being paranoid is not good considering were having a baby i do trust him its just ive never known him to be like this have any of you been in a similar situation maybe its just the whole concept that everythings going to change but whats bigger than being a parent for the 1st time or am i jsut over reacting id appricate any comments you have (i know most of you will say just talk to him )

shar

Hi Shar, hope it isnt too late to reply, me and my partner were already living together before i fell pregnant however he changed alot, feeling the need to go out with his single friends and spending more time with his mum, i think that men need to get their inner child out of their system before the new child comes along, my partner is very gron up now that lewis is born, i think that your partner will do right by you and is jsut feeling a little overwhelmed by the whole thing, he has to make a decision of wanting his friends in london or be a full-time great family man in dorset. im sure he'll make the write choice...remember your pregnant and you too need looking after!

hia thanks for your reply i understand complety its seems strange hes down for a couple days now and hes back to his normal self which is such a relief for me so i donthave to worry so much about it, hoepfully it was just because its a big step, im glad yours worked out good for you and that your having a hapy family life now , cant wait for october so all 3 of us are ogether