I know that the media and too many health care workers focus on how much/too much weight gain. But to be honest I think they have lost the plot. It is not worth the stress it cause poor mums. Being told you are not doing everything you can for your baby is gutting, and simply not true. I don't believe they know what they are speaking about. My friends who had babies and gained very little had the complications, the ones who ate heartily had healthy thriving babies. With my first daughter I was only 7 stone 3 pounds, when I became pregnant. The midwife told me I should't gain more then 15 - 20 pounds. I gained 70 pounds, and my midwife made me feel terrible about it every appointment. I didn't eat to excess though, and I exercised evryday, but still the weight came on, and my daughter was healthy. I think both her and I needed it. If I hadn't put on the weight maybe it wouldn't have been so lucky. I also found the weight comes off with out too much stress after because it's different then just normal weight gain. I lost nearly 30 pounds the first week. My friend was about the same weight and height as me and only gained 1 stone her whole pregnancy. She worked out intensivly and ate next to nothing the whole time. She just tried to stick to the midwife's weight charts, and her daughter spent the first 2 months in hospital and had brain developement difficulties. She was absolutley devestated becuase she worked so hard to do it "perfectly". Believe in your body and trust yourself, if you are hungry please eat and don't be guilty. Your baby would rather have a cuddly mummy and a full tummy.
[Modified by: abeasley on August 07, 2007 12:16 PM]