hi ladies sorry to g/c. I think its lovely you all feel you don't mind - before i had my ds i used to think that everyone who had a baby already had a secret preference for opposite next time round. Now i have him, i adore him so much if i found out i had another little boy on the way i would be so thrilled as i know what a joy it is to have a little boy.
I actually used to feel a bit uncomfortable when i got asked what i hoped for - i hoped for a beautiful well child and thats what i got. Ive seen too many sick babies in my work to care. Dont want to sound sanctimonious at all! Think its great none of you are putting a massive emphasis on it.
Just as an aside my OH honestly felt the same as me, we know we will only be having 2 children and we have never cared what they will be. People say all men want a son and all women want a daughter but neither of us felt that way x
just realised apple my previous message looks like a criticism of you, it definately wasnt! xx