I had a miscarriage at 34 and became completely consumed with wanting to get pregnant again. A year later i took clomid for 12 months and still nothing. We then tried for another 6 months and due to how stressful i found it i gave up. I spent my money on a pair of new boobs and went on 3 holidays abroad and bugger me i fell pregnant naturally. I had my first baby at 38. I had a brilliant pregnancy and my baby arrived 54 minutes after arriving at the hospital with no pain relief or stitches. I feel complete and extremely lucky to have my baby so am not going to try for anymore.