My boys both love Pasta, so tend to make a pasta dish, blend the meat and veg into the sauce and add something like peas or sweetcorn for texture. I then mix it with pasta and they both wolf it down. Isaac with a fork and Oscar with his hands.
For example last night I made a creamy chicken pasta with tomatoes, cream, cheese. Another favourite is sausage pasta made with sausages, courgettes, peppers, passata, I blend the veggies into the sauce and both boys enjoy eating sausages, so no need to blend them!
I also make the boys a korma, I can put what ever meat in I like, so tonight it is beef for the iron content, blend it all up except the peas and mix with rice. They both love it!
I found that adding little bits of texture to a puree worked better than trying to give them just chopped up lumps. Isaac is nearly 3, but I still blend meat (he has hypersensitivity and hates the texture in his mouth!) Neither of them eat a sunday roast, but they enjoy most foods so I'm not worried!
Good luck hope my waffle helped!
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