i have just found out my dad is visiting up here ( he lives in Bude and we are in west sussex ) but i found out through my brother on facebook, he said call my sister as it was all arranged through her and when i phoned she started shouting at me, saying i hadnt been nice to him and had ignored his new girlfriend.
i tried to be friends with him on fb and he regected me, so i thought well he has a new girlfriend and "family" so i didnt bother ,
now i see i was wrong and i should have bothered, im told that a message i sent was stated to only Him and not HER?? i didnt know her ( and still dont know her ) and to be honest didnt even think about it. it wasnt done to be mean it just didnt come in to my head that i should address every bit of mail to them both x
as i didnt think he wanted anything to do with me ( as he has made no contact back to me in a year ) i didnt invite him to my wedding.
harsh i know but i really just didnt think he wanted to be part of my life.
ive had my sister shouting down the phone to me saying i im a nasty daughter and i did hang up on her .
now i just feel crap, and really would like to say sorry but they have all gone.

am i the one in the wrong?
dont worry, u dont have to answer that
sorry for having a moan x

oh hun, everything you have just said you need to say to your dad. I didnt get on with my dads partner at all but now there are grandchildren involved we have put our differences aside. I will never be best friends with her but we are civil.

Is there any way you can get back in contact with them?

I hope you get things sorted out xxxxxx

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sorry i only just found how to get my posts up xx i have sent another email and had no reply and my brother went to see them and i asked him is dad got my email and he said dad said yes, but they havent replied????? well i tried and i did say sorry but maybe im not worth it?? im not gonna dwell on it x if he wants to get in contact then he will i guess xxx thank you for replying to my post xxx

Its a shame when people hold grudges. I hope they email you soon before they realise what they have lost ((((big hugs)))) xxxxxxxxxx

on a different note hun - are you demelza95 on youtube? xx

hiya hun xxx nope thats not me xxxxxx im sadly not on youtube lol xxxx

lol ok.

Hows things going with the family? xx

hiya hun xx still nothing xx my lil bro went to see him and he didnt ever let my name to spoken so i think im out of that side of the family, spoke to my brother and he said dad is really changed x they have decided to get married- fair play to them and i wish them well, but my brother asked who was coming and my dad said it would be a family affair and didnt list any of us, not even my brother is invited x so think that says it all x