Andi
I'm glad you have had no side effects- I haven't other this time although I am still waking up very very hot. I don't think clomid changed my ov because my lp is usually 14 days and the cycle is anything from 29 to 34 days. Last time it was 31 but I didn't do ov tests. I am going to this time though.
We have decided to rule out IVF because I have a minor case of a genetic condition that CAN be very serious (neurofibromatosis). When I found out, I was devastated and seriously considered not having children at all. I then decided that that was ridiculous- I only have it in a minor capacity and nobody would have a clue, my brother has it the same as me and his 2 children don't have it at all. I had it for 33 years without even knowing and then the doc only dropped it out in passing.
You see, a person who has it badly can have learning disability, blindness, curvature of the spine or even facial disfigurement (look at neurofibromatosis in google images). My GP thinks thats its worth still going ahead with the baby plans- the chances of our child having it badly are slim, especially as DH doesn't have the condition (for both parents to have it is bad).
I would never ever forgive myself if I forced the issue along with IVF and had a child with bad NF. They could be subjected to a lifetime of bullying and alienation and it would be my fault.. so we have decided to leave it to nature. The other side of the coin is that certain hormone changes aggrevate it. The down-regging could make it a lot worse for me and I don't know if I am brave enough to risk disfigurement myself.
I feel a bit in turmoil really. I just wish somebody could help me get my head around it all.
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Edited: 02/04/2012 at 05:25