I'm really struggling with this at mo currently 26+1 with no3 (a girl) when i found out i was pregnant again i kept saying how good it would be if we were having another boy as ds was born in Oct too so all his clothes would be perfect.
Now we know its a girl i am having difficulties, got loads of boys stuff that won't be used this time plus loads of girls stuff that i won't be able to use either as dd was born in June so most of it is too summery for an October baby. Dp gets really annoyed cos we are coming down with baby stuff but is already hinting that he would like no 4 as he thinks its a nice round number so i don't want to part with anything lol!
I think there's nothing wrong with passing clothes on whether its to siblings or other family members and friends, infact most of dd's clothes were given to me by my sil and most still looked brand new! My mum used to dye my pink stuff navy so my brother could wear it, this mortifies my brother but as my mum said why let good clothes go to wqste! A friend of mine sells alot of her daughters clothes thru ebay, she doesn't make a lot of money but every little helps! x x
P.S. sorry that post got kinda long lol