Hello......again

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08/06/2010 at 17:03
Hello, i'm just peeping in to introduce myself...... again. I did say hi last year when i was expecting my third baby and do pop in from time to time and read how exciting and often mad your large families sound. Anyway i'm now 16wks pregnant with baby no4 due November 24th and feel its best to get friendly with you lovely ladies now as i'm going to be calling on you for much help and advice i'm sure and perhaps may be able to offer some too. A bit about me: I'm Jo 29, married to Matthew 37 for the last 9 years we have a Daughter Lilac-Sky age 4 (born Jan 06) a Son Felix-Blue age 2 (born Oct 07) and another Daughter Iris- Florence age 10months (born Aug 09), really excited about baby number 4, we have our 20wk scan booked for July 8th, we won't be finding out the sex as we both like the surprise. Anyway, i think this post is getting a bit self indulgent, Will be lovely getting to know you all over the next however long.
Take Care
Jo xxxxx

[Modified by: Jojomummy on 09 June 2010 15:01:43 ]
08/06/2010 at 17:29
you sound like an older version of me lol i am meaning it in a good way too but i arent pregnant with no4 baby (yet lol) i am Jen 23 i have 3 little girls Millie ( born oct 08) and twins girls Hollie and Lucie ( born Nov 09) i would love more children but i am waiting for my little ones to grow up abit and also i have to go back to work for abit since i have nearly had 2 years off work with having my babies. just wondering when you have giving birth to your kids did you always know you wanted more, its just that i love been pregnant and giving birth and looking after my children sooooooo much that i think that i could keeping having loads of children or does your body kind of tell you when you have had enough????? if you know what i mean...... My mum said after she had her 4th child she felt complete and it was as if something clicked in her head that made her feel complete and knew she didnt want any more children. and i am kinda worried that ill never feel complete and keep wanting more children and i wouldnt wanna get old and think i should have had more babies when i had the chance and another thing that is worrying me is if after i had my 4 baby that i still dont feel complete and want more children but my partner wont want any more children and then i will grow old thinking that i should of had more babies when i could of ...... sorry to go on........................good luck with your pregnancy

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09/06/2010 at 10:25
Hi Jen, i knew i wanted a large family quite early, i myself am one of five and had the most glorious childhood, my siblings and i are really close and even though we vary in age from almost 40 down to 24 we have always all got along, so having gaps works as well as having them close - so you may have another in a couple of years then another in ten, who knows. I knew after each of mine that i wanted another, like yourself i love being pregnant and giving birth and do sometimes wonder if i might find the whole process rather intoxicating and a bit addictive lol. The eldest four of us are only 2 - 3 years apart and then my baby brother is almost 6 years younger (baby brother he's 24, 6ft and about to qualify as a doctor but i still call him baby lol) and my mum always says that after she had him she felt "yes thats it, my family is done" however as we got older and began to leave home in quick succession and the youngest was left at home alone age 12 she wishes she'd had another closer in age to him, but by then she was 48 and had been sterilised so that was off the cards. I doubt this will be my last but i don't like to count my chickens or take getting pregnant for granted, I've been so lucky getting pregnant easily, carrying well and giving birth with relative ease but i might not always be that lucky. My eldest sister had various fertility problems and eventually conceived thanks to IVF, she had an awful pregnancy, in and out of hospital to be put on drips due to dehydration caused by severe sickness, then at 34+ wks she collapsed due to severe pre-eclampsia, her daughter was delivered by c-section weighing 4lbs 3oz and my sister was in intensive care for two days, so i've seen both extremes and consider myself incredibly blessed. Soz kind of went off on an tangent there.
Jo xxx
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