Dear Claire & Izzy,
I am so sorry to hear about your troubles. None of mine had any similar complecations but I did have 2 who where in special care with quite serious problems that could cause learning delays. All I can advise is to do what I was told to do, enjoy every minute with your baby as the time flies past so quickly, you blink and they are toddlers!!, and take each day at a time. You will worry over everything but try to enjoy lots of cuddles and make some YOU time, even if its just a soak in the bath.
Hope you get more information and will be thinking about you, try to stay positive [ although a good rant and a good cry can also do you the world of good]
Breige