Hey, I haven't had my second yet and am in the same position as you so just thought i'd share my thoughts.
After my 12 week scan (tomorrow) I'm going to book in for a VBAC class. I'm not sure how they work and how many people go to them, but I think they are quite new because they are trying to get the c-section rate down.
My main concern is that my pelvis is too narrow and my body just physically won't give birth naturally. Because I had to be induced last time I do fear that my body isn't cut out for giving birth!
If they can measure my pelvis and look back at the details from my first birth (emcs due to failure to progress and he was distressed) and say that they think that i have a good chance of having a natural birth this time, then I am willing to try, but if they tell me that it is very unlikely, then I will opt for a planned c-sec.
I think it does depend on why your first c-sec was performed and also, how much it means to you to try and get a natural birth. Some people really don't mind and would rather know a date for a section so that they can plan all the practicalities.
Will keep chatting in due in nov too

xxx