Hey, I had the exact same problem, small flat nipples and difficult latch. The good news is it does get easier, I am still bf-ing at 6 months and it is completely pain free. I used to give them a break, lots of lanisoh after every feed and I would sometimes feed only from one side for a couple of feeds and express the other and then swap over to give them a break. Your nipples will harden up. COngratulations on your new arrival, Thomas is a lovely name xx