hi,i breast fed my middle child till she was 18 month,when she turned 1 i cut her right down to 2feeds just the afternoon so she would have her afternoon kip then before bed,then a few week after that i cut it down to just the afternoon.ive got to say though it was heartbreaking stopping altogether when she was 18month because i loved breastfeeding and she still wanted "boobie",but i had to be firm.i still wore nursing bras up till stopping altogether,more because they where just so comfy.Im really glad i breastfed lauren till that age i certanly didnt feel weird feeding a toddler,and i definatly will feed bailey who is only 9week at the mo till he is 18month so long as he still wants it then.hope that helps. becky xx