Yes, I have this problem! Ryan is 1 now but ever since I can remember he has needed distracting to eat. Sometimes a book he can turn the pages through, sometimes toys on his highchair table, an empty box or bottle...anything...the list goes on. But now I try to give him finger food he can nibble on through the meal like sticks of carrot, chopped up fruit to go with dessert, breadsticks etc. I think I can count on one hand the times he has just sat and been fed. Now he often will have a spoon so kind of digs in in between me feeding him. Good luck though - know where you are coming from!