i need some help if any one is listening

are you ok?

are you ok?

Welcome to BE. There aren't many people up at this time of day, and this board is only really used for live chats with guest experts, but what's the problem?

my wife has real bad hormone and i dont know what to do

That hasn't really explained very much, could you be more specific?
if your wife is pregnant, or a mum, the best thing you can do is be supportive and caring. You might be at the wrong end of tears and a bad temper, but grin and bear it, and let her know how much you love her.

Has she just had a baby? or is she currently expecting? women can get hormonal at times. I don't have an answer for you really, she may just need a chat, or a cuddle or just to know you're there for her. x

i let her know she is beauitful to me and i bite my tounge every time i just want to make it easy on her

sounds like you're doing all you can, there's nothing you can do to make hormonal swings and surges disappear.

Just make sur you dont do things that really irritate her or get on her nerves!

For example my husband really annoys me when he brings empty cups into the kitchen and puts them above the dishwasher when it just takes a couple more seconds to put them in the dishwasher!

If shes goes off on one. Just take a deep breath before you anser. No doubt if she may also get stressed due to lack of sleep. I should probably ask if she is a mum yet or not?

What are you normally doing when her mood changes. Maybe you could try and avoid these moments.

I think you are doing a good job by the sounds of it. If you are trying to make things easy for her just to please her, make sure you arent holding things in and getting stressed yourself. If it helps write her a letter of how you feel etc and give it to her when shes in a good mood. When my husband got stressed before we were married or we had some sort of discussion and I would whinge at him for not doing enough studying. Hes way round it was to write me a letter....

I dont know if any of that has helped.

If anything is bothering you just ask ,