Tiggs,

I saw this on the Index page. I know you haven't updated since April so I'm guessing all is good with your mum now? In your 'scan update' you mention that your mum was reassuring you so does that mean that all is well now? I hope so hun xxx

Hi

Thanks Girls for all the support its been a great help. My mum is talking to me now she was the one who came to me though as i said many times before i was so upset and my OH was aswell. Then my OH went into hospital for gallbladder op emergency one and my mum and dad ralleyed round us very quickly. I stayed there for a while and thinks have been fine since. Still get the odd niggle like still think you should have waited but i just ignore it now i dont care i'm soing whats right for me not anyone else xxx

Sounds like your mom thinks the baby is going to ruin her 'special wedding' or is worried what are people are going to think. A baby does not ruin anything, it's a special, wonderful event and she is going to regret it not being part of it. I got married 2 weeks before I had my daughter and it was great. She has to realize your a educated adult and will do things differently than her and back off.