Hi Ladies,

Well if you have read the posts below you will have a picture of what has happened so far, On CD41 and still no sign of AF, felt a little odd a couple of weeks past and on CD29 did a test and got a BFN, did another on CD36 still a BFN
Not sure what is going on as i used to be pretty regular, never had this length,
Can any one help?
Maybe the bleed I had after my coil was removed was not a true period?
Trying not to get too hung up on all of this but it is so hard.
Hope you can all help and good luck to you all.

Lots of love

D X

Hi Again

well what is going on.....I have no idea.....after last update, boobs have settled down, on Sunday had a what I thought was the start of my period...when wiping myself had got little clots of dark blood, so I thought it must be the start of my period, anyway since then nothing at all, everything seems to be all over the place, I thought the first period was a little early after my coil was removed but now I am even more confused...
I will have to just wait and see.....
Thanks ladies, hope you may have some answers.
XX

Hi Everyone

Just thought i would update you all, not that there are many of us on here, Well had my coil removed on 32.3.09 and on the friday AF visited, couldn't believe it and since then my boobs are so sore, had forgotten how fab the coil is....

Anyway will jsut have to watch this space, still confused...

Thanks for being here

XXX

Hi Everyone

I'm new and confused......I have a DS of 9 and DH of 42, I'm 38 and we have now after long chats decided to try for another, i think, DH never wanted another and i was happy with ds but now as time is marching on, i really would like another one, but i am oh so confused, am i too old, is Ds too old for a sibling, and we afford it, there are so many things running round my head....when we decided to go for DS, i never had any of these thoughts, it seems like such a big decision....can anyone help?

I really do hope so.

Thanks for reading and i hope it makes sense....

LOL

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Hi Dinky. Sorry you are having such a dilemma at the moment but my answer would be no, you are never too old. Dont laugh but i am 47 and ttc! I have a son who is 12 so there will be a big age gap if it happens. My brother and i are 8 years apart and we are extremely close. I was very protective of him when he was growing up.
You are right, it is a huge decision but if this is what you both want, i would say go for it! You may have more regret if you dont and always think "what if".
Good luck whatever you decide and do keep in touch and let us know how you are getting on :-)
lots of love, bluebird xxxx

Hi Bluebird,
Thanks for your advice, i know your right I would hate to have 'what if' when it is too late.
I'm sending you all my very best wishes.
Thanks again and i will let you know if anything happens.

Lots of love
XX

Dinky,

I totally agree with Bluebird. I was 43 when my 1st child was born in October last year and have not ruled out trying for number 2 when my lo is a little older!

You go for it girl!

Julie x

awww, thanks for the update Dinky. Really hope that all goes well for you. I lurk around here quite a bit so do please keep in touch. Good luck! lots of love, bluebird xxxx