13 months of trying - 8 weeks of such happiness nowing that my babies (Twins) were doing ok - we always knew number 2 was struggling. How can it be that number ones heart just stopped - i saw it last week. They are going to take them both away from me tomorrow and i feel so enpty and angry now i think.
Not sure i can go through this again

Sweetheart, you will get through this. It doesn't feel like it now and I can't imagine how you must feel. I had just 5 weeks of happiness and know that empty feeling you are describing.

Take each day as it comes and don't expect anything from yourself. One day you will wake up and be ready to start again. It won't be easy but you will get there.

My thoughts are with you.
C.xx

I am so so sorry to hear of your loss.

It may not feel like it now but it does get easier hun. I miscarried at 7 weeks and I felt exactly what you are feeling. I do still have down days but I know eventually my time will come, as will yours.

I also had an erpc, so if there is anything you want to ask I'll do my best to help.

Take care xxx

Hey Summer, by the time you read this, you'll hopefully be back at home tucked up on the sofa with lots of love and support surrounding you. I so hope everything went as well as can be expected and that physically you are bearing up ok. Mentally, I know this will be a much slower process, but I promise you, you will get there. The sadness doesn't disappear but it becomes manageable and life goes on again. But this is such a huge thing, so you must take care and look after yourself. Deal with it however you feel best and don't for one single moment beat yourself up for any negative emotions you will undoubtedly have. Am sending a big cuddle and lots of love. If we can do anything at all to help, even if it's just to listen, just ask. xxxxxxxxx

Thinking of you and hoping you're ok.

You know where we are if you need us.

B x

i simply dont know what to say - iam really hurting too having just lost my bundle - told yesterday.
take time cry out loud - things have to get better. thinking of you both at such a hard time
all my love carol x

i am sitting on my sofa full of fluffy stuff, hot water bottles biscuits flowers cards,taz (the dog) is under the blankets somewhere!

feeling ok though - much better now that they are stars - i look at their pictures and just cannot understand why they wanted to go when i wanted them so much.

I feel very lucky that i found BE well over a year ago as you ladies always come up trumps and you understand when my MIL really doesnt and tells me i will be fine now!

Hoping that you are all ok - we can and will get through this. I can imagine a conversation with my son or daughter when they are adults telling them that if it wasnt for their brother or sister s making way for them then we would never have had the opportunity to love them so much.

Love to you all x x x x x

Summer - my heart goes out to you my luv...we will get through this together i promise xxx

Good to hear from you hun and glad you're being pampered with Taz to look after you.

We will be ok and must surely have something amazing to look forward to, to balance out what we've all been through.

Take care.

B x

Good to hear from you hun and glad you're being pampered with Taz to look after you.

We will be ok and must surely have something amazing to look forward to, to balance out what we've all been through.

Take care.

B x