hi ya ive got to have another c section it will b my 3rd and im terrified as i had my sections both 10 weeks early due to preeclampsia im scared of the whole lot as my little boy has cereable palsey aswell i really dont want a c section they hurt so much does any1 no if i cud twist my consultants arm and go 4 a natural delivery provideing i dont play up and get preeclampsia again then i no that i have no choice but to have a csection cos it will b best for my baby and me please help:roll:

did they say the reason why you have to have another c section?

If you want a vbac and the only reason they are recommending another section is because you've had 2 previously, then you can obviously refuse and try for a natural birth but as you have had 2 previous sections it obviously has increased your risk of scar rupture. You will be monitored very closely anyway with a vbac so any problems such as scar rupture should be picked up and dealt with early. Talk to your consultant and explain that you'd like to try, obviously you know the risks so it is up to you at the end of the day x

hi ya ive got to have a section cos im sevear high risk pregnancy cos ive had hellp syndrome and preeclampsia twice i went to the hospital today and the r transfering my care to a bigger hospital cos of my history and they have said im to much risk to go 4 a normal delivery not to mention the scar ruptureing im gutted but i want to wats best 4 baby its just something im gona have to get my head around they just hurt so much and i need to be on my feet to look after my 3 kids especially ty my youngest as he has cereable palsey thats another reason ive got to have my baby at a more equiped hospital cos both boys were really poorly wen they were born as both boys were 10 weeks premature and they can deal with really tiny babys cos ty nearly came at 26 weeks cos i was so ill they nearly did my sec then but he held on that little bit longer im crapping myself to b honest of the pain after i ent even scared of the preeclampsia its the section that im scared of xxx

my SIL wanted a normal delievery after her 2n section and was told after 1 sec-yes,but once you have had 2,the risk was to high of rupture in labour. i dont no wether hospital policys vary?

tbh, if any Dr agrees to let someone attempt a VBAC after 2 c/s, they need shooting!! if the woman declines the c/s then that's her call, but no Dr would recommend or advise it after 2!!

Tinkerbell, although i sympathise with you wholeheartedy for not wanting the c/s again, you know that it is the best and safest thing for you. if you are so ill, with either pre-eclampsia or HELLP, you also know that the only thing that will stop either of them is delivery, and if you are prem again, the only answer is the c/s.

even if by some miracle you get to full term, it still isnt safe for you to have a vaginal delivery!. your uterus has 2 weakened areas on it from your previous c/s, and contractions will probably just go straight thru this! one c/s - fair enough, have ago, but 2?

your Dr is recommending another c/s based on what research has found. i will agree with women who say that they are not always right, but with things like this? i'm with him all the way!!

you could have been grotty after the others, not just because of the c/s but also you were ill!! both pre-eclampsia & HELLP are not the best or nicest things to have!! if you were given drugs for the PET, they will have contributed to it etc etc. hopefully, this time you'll stay well!!

i hope so to im just scared i went to the hospital last week and ive got to go to a special maternity unit that deals with high risk pregnancys like mine its a lovely hospital but its 30 miles away and if baby is prem can u imagine it going up there every day and trying to b a mom to my other 3 i just pray to god i go full term i wnted a nateral birth so i cud b on my feet quickly as i have a little boy with ceriable palsey and needs alot of care as hes fed through a tube i wasnt just been awkward im just trying to do the right thing im gona b scared of the c sections of the pain

Hope everything goes well for you, some girls who have had elective sections have had great quick recoveries so try not to worry so much. Hope your little boy is ok xxx