last night i finally had a dream about labour, and it has now sunk in that in aprox 60 days im going to be a mum... im bricking it, its like all of a sudden ive just realised whats happening im sooo scared spesh now i found out both my mum and sister gave birth to there first 6 weeks early so if i follow the trend itm will be aprox 2 weels away and i also found out today my friends baby daughter has passed away *this is there second baby to pass away in the same year due to cot death* and im now terrifed of what might happen and that i might not be able to cope..... has it sunk in like this for anybody else or am i just worrying about nothing?? please help :S xxx

hi hunny
so sorry to hear you not feeling great. i was very blaze last pg didnt think anything could go wrong after 20 odd weeks etc and when my son was born again i didnt worry too much really (was a little of the blues looking back)
it was when my best friend lost her baby at 40 weeks and had a stillbirth that i suddenly started panicking and i worried about my son constantly checking his breathing (still check a million times a night and he is 18 months old!). this pg i have started to worry now im in 3rd trimester and just want my baby out and safe now. but i know the worry will never ever go away. i think its normal to worry about cot death and we hear so much about it when pg from midwifes etc. be prepared to worry for the rest of your life!!!
i cant imagine what your poor friends are going through but i know its so painful to lose a baby no matter what and my freind is starting ivf again in a couple weeks which in itself is traumatic for me never mind her! try and enjoy the rest of your pg and bubs does come early he/she will be fine im sure. xx