Hi girls :)
Im Laura, im 17 and currently 11 weeks pregnant. I found out i was pregnant at 5 weeks, and although to start with it was scary, ive come to terms with it now and im very excited :)
Ive been with my boyfriend for 2 and a half years, but we had a split last october which lasted 6 months. Hes been my first love and my first proper boyfriend, and i love him very much. We have spoke about babies before and he seemed very excited at the idea.
There is a little problem though, which i hope you girls could help me with. FOr the past year, from when we split up he started smoking marijuana. IT wasnt on a regular basis, maybe once or twice every few months, but as the months have gone by its got worse. Hes now doing it everytime hes out with his mates, and i cant stand it.
He knows how i feel about it, ive told him millions of times i dont agree with it and everytime i know hes had some i go in a mood with him, not because i want too, i literally cant stop myself and for that moment i actually hate him. He always fights back when i go on about it, telling me that he can do what he wants to do in his own time, that he doesnt do it around or near me, so it shouldnt be a problem, but thats not good enough. The fact that hes doing it is enough.
When he goes out with his mates differs, some week hes can see them 4/5 times a week, some weeks not at all. Although he does see them 3 times a week at college. Everytime hes with them he does it.
I dont know what to do. I want him to stop so bad, i dont want to bring a baby up with a dad who smokes weed. Its not how i wanted it to be and its not what ill let my baby come in to, even if he isnt doing it near the baby, the fact that he does it is bad enough.
Please girls give me some advice, i have no idea what to do anymore. I dont want to tell my parents because i know they would hate it and proberly not let him round the house again, which will just cause more problems.
