i dont know what to do as having a baby and only just turned 17 in august i am about 2-3 months pregnant in a relationship only been together 3 months 2 soo all going to fast but we love ech other and i am scard i might lose baby or him:\?

wow dani3ll3 lol well first calm down a bit , its never as bad as it seems

how u were brought up and your families attitude to young mums can make all the diference, but i wouldnt worry too much about being in a new relationship as long as you know you love each other im 18 and was with my boyfriend 3 month when i fell pregnant, and now we have our own place and are getting married next year

im not saying for deffo itll all work out like that for you, but thought it would be nice for you to know that just because you rushed it doesnt mean its the be all and end all, have you told your boyfriend and family? and if so have they welcomed it with open arms or are they a bit sceptical? the main thing is what you think and how you feel. if you are happy with the little life growing inside you and you know you'll be a good mum, theres nothing to worry about right now cos the stress wont do anyone any good !! xxx

Tinkerbell

aww thnx huni awww =] gd luck wid tht yh we both do love each other millions he the world to me n always will be just tht he seems abit off wid me n dont wanna talk alot bout baby yh eva1 knows i am pregnant =] got loads things already brought 4 me

its werid i used to wont a baby but i didnt wont one now but i guess when its born i will love it even more n be pround tht i did get pregnant

loads people calling me a slag too because i am 17 n pregnant and me n daryl (bf) been together 4 a while

hey i was 16 when i found out i was pregnant andwas absolutely terrified, me and my bf split soon after finding out (nothing to do with the pregnancy, it was already on the cards) and we had been together for over two years ithought i would never be able to cope, but with the support off my family and friends i am now a yummy mummy to a 7 week old baby girl and im loving every minit of it! i dont miss him now and i dont need him. things will work out either way hunny!!!
xx gud luck

Im 17, i was 16 wen i got pg and it was planned. since thn ive had a mc and im pg again 33wks+3. dont listen to wat people say and ignore the looks u'll prob get, it will be worth it in the end. good luck. xx

Ditto to tinkerbell's bump!

Me n OH we're together three months before getting engaged, five months before me getting pregnant and 6 months before getting our own place. Its bloody tough sometimes but you gotta get through it for your baby's sake.

It really is the best thing in the world and it's alll so so so worth it.
Harry's 7 n half months now and he's such and amazing little boy i don't know what to do without him!

Lucy x

p.s. if it goes pear shaped with your bloke then who cares! Don't need a man to look after you and your LO. Better to make life as good as possible for LO rather than worrying about men. But if he sticks around and does his bit as a daddy then big bonus!!

xxx

Oh n i was 17 when i found out, so didn't have huge amount of support from parents for a long time (mum had the secret dream of me going to uni.. etcetc lol! ) but everything is good now. x

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cant believ how ignorant people can be calling you a slag just ignore them. an hold ur head up high that you didnt get an abortion like most girls do that deserve the name slag. you'l be a great mum whether it worksout with the lad or not. just be strong and when your baby us born you'll realise that you life is now dedicated to him. x

i was 17 wen i found out i was pregnant with my daughter and a first i was scared but as time went on i realised i was really happy and so was my boyfriend(even more then me) and we hadnt been together for long 'AT ALL'! But we love each other and our unborn child thats all that counts!:p:\)

thanks girls =] ur all soo nyc n congrates to u all

me n bf are ok going be together threw it all.. we spoke about it n he surpporting me and looking after me =]

i canit wait to have the baby i knw be best thing eva. and i would neva get anbourtion its discusting n if ya get ya self preg then its ur fault not the babys x =]

hummm i got me first scan 16 october but might be changed to 9th x

luv ya danielle x

p.s thnx girles x:p

Hey im a bit late in writing in here but i just managed to get on the net lol

I was 16 when i fell pregnant with my little boy who is now 18months, my B.f a thte time didnt want a baby, and went all funny for a while, i have since fell pregnant again to him and we did break up for a good few months as he didnt want 1 baby never mind 2 but we are back together now and im due our little girl on 16th October. Im sure if you love each other and work together and most importantly talk then you will be fine :)

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thnx bbe x

aww tht nyc well glad u 2 shorted it out n gd luck wid ur baby x x
couple off days till u givin birth well congrates huni xx

well i just got tld mite be losing my baby i anit bleeding or nothin just keep being sick n got tummy ach but had another preg test sayin negative now is it ok for some tests to go negative while ur preg?

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luv danielle
Dani3ll3-17@hotmail.co.uk me addie:\?

hey im 17 and wen i found out i was pregnant me and my boyfriend had only been together 3 months too im 30 weeks now and in that short time we've been through loads and are so strong as a couple because of me being pregnant i think. il be 18 on jan 8th so not long after my due date , i think being a young parents is fine i dont see why evryone makes such a big issue over it. anyone is capable of bringing up a child if they are mature enough and ready the only worry for me was money becasue i was only in my first year at college wen i found out i was pregnant and couldnt go on 2 do my second year so now i jus sit at home doing nuthing and me and my boyfriend have to claim benefits and although its a great help and think its great that its avalible i also never wnated that for me but its happened and im sure most of us didnt plan to get pregnant at this age but we just have to make descisons and get on with it my freinds were the worst about it my family although devasted for me where really supportive but my freinds said horrible comments like your so stupid ! and youve reuined your life etc it wasnt very nice but luckily for me one of my best freinds found out she was pregnant a week after me so weve had eachother the whole time. x x x x good luck with evrything girls x x x

Heyy =]

Im 17 and i found out i was pregnant in august. I had my first scan last thursday and i am 14 weeks tomorrow.

Me and my bf had planned it as its what we have wanted 4 a long time and we have been together for 3 years =]

The only thing is that i am not just having one baby! I am expecting identical twins which was a big shock for me, my bf (nathan) and both our familys!

I am excited but i dont know how im going to copee ...

Can anyone helppp??