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hi ladies what a fantastic forum
i had a traumatic birth with my son 11years ago and wished i had something like this to help me talk it through but what i will tell you all is something that a fantastic midwife told me way back then...
" all women are made to have babies but it takes a strong woman to survive a taumatic birth" so when your feelin a bit down and a bit of a failure cos it never went to plan or the "earth" mothers are makin you feel inferior (god thats so how i felt after my emer section 11 years ago) just remember your a special kind of female who can survive the trauma
fea x