Hi girls

Whether or not I admit it to myself - or others - I feel at times that I am obsessed with ttc - to the point that every time dh and I bed i have it in my mind - whether i'm ov or not!!! I think its worse just now cos my due date would have been 20 sep. Sometimes I believe i lost more than our baby in feb - i lost that carefree attitude towards having a baby I think I was too confident have had 2 previous pregnancies. How do you all feel?? I know I am not alone but just wondered what all your thoughts were? I don't say everything I feel to my dh and its nice to have an outlet here. xxxx

We are ttc our first and had mc at the beginning of July. I was devistated but I have to say having been through it I am now a little more carefree than I was. I feel now like I am not going to stop living in the process of getting pg I am carrying along as normal, and if I am lucky enough to get a sticky bean and I have to change some plans brill but if it is not to be then at least I will be making the most of being me. Maybe I am a little too laid back I don't know but it is the only way for me to deal with it. If I let myself get too caught up in it I get all upset over what I have lost. You are right though this forum is great, it is sometimes a little difficult to post on ttc without seeming negative and I don't want to upset anyone xx

Hi,

I had mc end of July. We are ttc this month. Just finished af. Im getting all excited but tring to keep cool and layed back. I know its easy to say "take it easy" but thats the best thing you can do. It will only happen when its meant to be. I hope you get your bfp very soon. Keep thinking positive.

xx

Hi

I know how you feel, I mc in july and just focused so much on the first af and that we get can to ov day my oh just could cope with the pressure i had put on him.. next month i going to try and be abit more cool about it all..easy said than done!!!

I felt the same after my m/c. All I could think about was getting pregnant and when I did only 8 weeks after my m/c I started having doubts about really wanting another baby!!! (I have two children already) I think it's a natural reaction. In hindsight I realise that I had to pove to myself (and other people) that I could have another successful pregnancy after what I lived as a failure...I am 40 wks+ preg now and off course I want this baby! But I still think about the one I lost.