BEFORE THE PREGNANCY/BABY:
Was your out look on life different?: yes, for one, I was a youngin, living on my own, no curfew, lots of drinking, and I was a dancer.
How has that outlook change?: I have a better relationship with the Lord, so being a dancer just doesn't appeal to me, I don't drink now that I have children and obviously now that I'm pregnant, and although still young, I feel more mature, more focused, and more together.
WHAT SIZE WERE YOU BEFORE BECOMING A MOMMY?: I was a beautifule size 4 or 5. I loved it!
WHAT SIZE ARE YOU NOW?: before this baby I was a 9 or 10 :-( I don't love it as much. I was starting to lose lots weight before I got preggie again. But its okay I'm young, I'll lose it :-)
DOES THAT MAKE YOU MAD, SAD, OR DO YOU NOT CARE?: all the above, I'm very hormonal so my attitude changes! Ha! But its all worth it!
HAVE YOU CHANGED? DIFFERENT HAIR COLOR, WAYS YOU DO YOUR MAKE UP?
Yes indeed! I used to dye my hair from, blonde higlights to red red, to BLACK, and I'm a natural redhead, black did not look sexy! And make up, I don't wear nearly as much as I used to!
HAS YOUR WARDROBE CHANGED SINCE YOU HAD BABIES OR BECAME PREGNANT?: yes I no longer dress like a hoochie mama! B4 I was preg I wore clothes the size of wash cloths, that covered like nothing! Now, I dress with everything covered, like a lady.
HAS YOUR SHOE SIZE CHANGED?: no I'm still a 7 1/2.
CAN YOU STILL REACH YOUR TOES TO POLISH?: no and I need a manicure so bad!
ON PARENTING. (NOW OR IN THE FUTURE):
ARE YOU PRO OR CON WITH DISCIPLINE?: I am pro. Children need to know how to act, how not to act, what's right, what's wrong, otherwise they'll grow up to be spoiled and bratty! But there's a fine line between discipline and abuse. So discipline needs to go about gental and in a way the child understands. Time out works great... spanking I don't like doing.
WHEN YOUR CHILD COMES HOME AND DECIDES THEY WANT A PIERCING OR TATTOO HOW WOULD YOU REACT?:
Depends on what age they are. I was like that and since my parents wouldn't let me, I went out and did it anyway. Our religion says they're NO NO's but, if my children are mature, they know what they want, won't regret it, I think a belly ring is okay. But I would prefure them to wait until they're 18.
WHEN YOUR CHILD WANTS A CAR, WILL YOU BUY IT OR HAVE THEM BUY IT?:
Depends on their grades in school, and their maturity level. I would want them to have a job to pay for their own gas. It would teach them responsibility and value. If we have the money, I don't see why not. My husband want them to get a used car and fix it up together.
WHAT'S AN APPROPRIATE CURFEW FOR A 16 YEAR OLD?:
Argh! Again depends on maturity, also the type of people she hangs out with. I want to say 8:30pm on school night, and 9:30 10:00pm weekends. Sounds fair to me.
WHEN WILL YOU LET YOUR DAUGHTER WEAR MAKE UP?: about 16 or 17.
IF YOU HAVE BOTH BOY AND GIRL, WOULD YOU TREAT THEM THE SAME OR MORE STRICT ON ONE?: because the way the world is, I don't know. My parents were way more strict on me than my brothers it sucked. I would hope to treat them the same.
DO YOU WANT TO BE THE MOM WHO IS ALSO THE FRIEND?: all my friends had that! I loved it! My parents were parents... I want my children to be able to come to me for anything and talk/tell me anything!
