why can everyone around you get preg and you cant when you want it so badly

oh its just another bitch of a thing that happened to me today i have done another test and BFN so even tho im shattered and throwing up still im not pg and no af and its over 80 days off pill now.

PMA has flown away and i wanna curl up and die xxxxxxxxxxxxx im so unhappy i dont know what to do

I didn't want to r&r. I'm so sorry you're feeling like that. I'm only CD35 with BFN and no AF and I feel confused enough from all the symptoms. You're not alone.

What tests are you using? Have you been to docs? I only ask as my cousin was pregnant (shown by scan) and it didn't show on a PG test until she was 8 wks gone even though the scan had confirmed it!

Just a little bit of hope maybe....

I'm sending you some PMA - keep your chin up!

i have been the docs she says in her opinion i am, but keep testing to get bfp, I am on cd 80 she wont do bloods or anything just said if no af in 3 months go back, im in limbo, had a good cry now and feel better, i have done today a predictor and morrisons own brand test, mon i did clear blue and cheapy pound shop test. tues i did first response, so i dont think its the tests, i was so sicky today right up til 3pm and im soooooooo tired.

I have had a good cry in the bath

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Oh MrsRich :-( If your doc says they think you are, then it's a good chance you are chick. D@mn tests!

Go get an early night, or settle down with a movie and some chocolate!

(bug hugs)

i thought that but she didnt even examine me, just said based on symptoms, but all tests are neg, surely it would show by now, if i ov'd when i thought i did (if) then i am 18dpo now so wouldnt it show???????????????

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Maybe not - I've read a lot of posts by people who've said their tests didn't show for weeks!

you think so?

Yes, I do. It's not impossible....

hi sorry i am crashing i know but my friend didnt get a single positive pregnancy test until she was 6months pregnant, so it is possible. if i were you i would go back to the doctor and INSIST on a blood test to put your mind at rest it really isnt fair leaving you like this babe. goodluck and loadsa stcky baby dust!!!xxxx

hi bit of positiveness for you my friend had BFN for day one and even had BFN a week before she had the baby so you neva know just one of those flucks

all my symptoms point to it, so far (and sorry if tmi) i have tingly tender boobs, sickness, nausea, absolutely shattered, emotional, weeing lots, pressure and funny stomach and a very high cervix, its been like that about 2 weeks. and i dont feel ill so sure its not a bug, i just feel wiped out lol

oh i hope i am i want it so bad, even tho only 11 weeks till wedding lol i dont care if i cant wear the big dress i want the baby lol xxxxx

all my symptoms point to it, so far (and sorry if tmi) i have tingly tender boobs, sickness, nausea, absolutely shattered, emotional, weeing lots, pressure and funny stomach and a very high cervix, its been like that about 2 weeks. and i dont feel ill so sure its not a bug, i just feel wiped out lol

oh i hope i am i want it so bad, even tho only 11 weeks till wedding lol i dont care if i cant wear the big dress i want the baby lol xxxxx

MrsRich, i would agree with the everyone, i know people who have insisted on getting blood pregnancy tests because the usual ones have shown up negative, even upto 6months, they had all the symptoms you have. One of those people are actually my mother she knew she was pregnant without the any tests, she had heartburn lol this is how she realised she was pregnant. Of course the doctors wouldnt believe her because the normal tests come back negative but like i said she insisted, low and behold i was coming. Keep your chin up chick get a second opinion, or maybe go to your local walk in clinic they may be able to take your blood there and then. xx

Awwww mrs rich im so sorry that your feeling so down, bloody docs just dont have a clue how this ttc lark gets to us, do they? I hope you either get your bfp or af very soon, god our bodies can be a real pain in the ass at times! Thinking of you hun, try and stay stronge. xx

I tested when I was one day late and got a bfn, I resisted testing again until 4 days after my af was due and got a bfp so it may just be down to your hormone levels. Maybe you ovulate late in your cycle which may explain it?
Keep positive, and as the others say if you are really going crazy then go back to your gp and insist on a blood test. You don't pay your national insurance for nothing!

Fingers crossed you won't fit into your big white dress lol!! x

Awww MRs Rich - I've been where you are so many times. I've only had 3 afs in a a 14 months since coming off the pill. It's difficult - it's only when it got to about 6 months off the pill they did blood tests. Then it was 10 months off the pill they did internal scan etc. I have PCOS - but it doens't mean you do - it could just be your body settling down - and the docs will tell yu the same at this stage I'm afraid.

The pill is full of hormones and you've been pumping them into your body - it just takes a while for it to settle down.

Keep your chin up hun - I've been waiting 15 months to get as far as I have - so it will happen - it's just a matter of time.

I have felt like you and cried so many times - paitence is a terrible thing - in the end I went for Private care to a gyane in a hospital in the next town 40 minutes away - just because I wanted something to happen and was sick with the NHS.

But you must keep your PMA! Just try to focus on something else for a while - like a holiday or a craft or something! I had a goal of getting things organised for when my best friend was coming over from spain for a week (she's just left) and was working on a project for my OH for his business - and all of a sudden an af came within a few weeks - I'm convinced I even ovulated - and I think it was because I relaxed about it and just got on with life - easier said than done I know!

Now I'm going through treatment through the private doc - I'm not sure how long it will take - but I'm just glad something is being done. So give it time hun - if your not happy with your doc - then go private - my private doc cleared up my issues in 10 mins and achieved more than the NHS had done in about 8 months - it's worth every penny!

Take care - and chin up! Love M

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Oh Mrs R I'm sorry to hear you are still in limboland. If I were you then I'd go back to the docs next week and demand a blood test. I'd say that it is seriously affecting you and really getting you down and that you have the wedding to focus on and are getting depressed etc. Just really throw it all at her, it's true anyway. Heck you need to know anyway coz of the dress!!! It's fri now anyway so if you go next week then you'll have waited a decent enough time to go back and have tested enough too.

Goodluck hun, I hope this all ends in a BFP for you xxx

thanks alot guys xxx and I have pcos to mummywannabe diagnosed at 14. struggled all my life lol. I have done another post coz im even more confused now lol xxxxxx

i know its just nt fair i went into town yesterday and everyone i saw either was pg or just had one and i went to ma sisters house n one of her friends is now pg bt doesnt look it and is overweight and manage it its nt fair coz i have pcos too which is totally unfair

i have pcos and i know what you mean my sis in law just got accidentally pg every one is lol