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Posted : Nov 07, 2009 7:31:11 PM
Subject : Not good news at scan yesterday ):
Hi, had scan yesterday and sadly didn't go as well as i hoped, Baby has a heartbeat but it is slow.
The sonographer said it may be that the baby was resting or that it was poorly. I have to go for another scan next Friday to see what is what. She said it wasn't uncommon for this to happen but can't help thinking the worse.
I then saw my consultant who said really i have a 50/50 chance of mc and to be prepared for this.
So hope that it is a super strong sticky bean but at the same time trying to prepare myself incase this is not the case.
As anyone else gone for a scan to be told their bean has a slow heart beat only to go for another scan and everything be ok? Sorry grasping at straws.
I have had no pain, cramps or bleeding to suggest mc is on its way but can't help feeling its just a matter of time. Sorry to be so negative, im trying really hard not to be.
Sara x
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Lauz41
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Posted : Nov 07, 2009 7:47:10 PM
So sorry Sara that all wasnt as you had hoped but you cant give up on your little bean yet....all you an do is try and keep up some PMA and hope for the best next week....
I really hope you do have a super sticky bean in there!
Lx
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Posted : Nov 07, 2009 8:19:23 PM
Hi Sara,
I am so sorry you didn't get the news you were expecting and can totally understand your negativity - don't apologise for it. A 50:50 chance is understandably worrying. At least you have seen the HB this time though hun. And there is still a good chance that everything will work out, don't lose sight of that.
I am really hoping that this is a sticky one for you honey, sending you big (((((hugs)))))
xxxxx
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Posted : Nov 08, 2009 6:58:31 AM
hi sara.
im sorry to read this,but as consultant said you have 50/50 chance lovey,im really hoping and keeping everything crossed for you(will be terribly hard to do anything!!)
huge hugs
Clare xxx
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Posted : Nov 08, 2009 7:18:58 AM
oh no hun. I have only just seen this! Im sorry to hear there is only a 50/50 chance. I will be keeing everything crossed for you and bean. (((big hugs)))
xxxx
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NattyNik
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Posted : Nov 08, 2009 10:23:55 AM
Oh Sara, I'm really sorry it couldn't have just been good news.
It is completely understandable that you are feeling so down and worried. No need to apologise at all.
I will keep my fingers crossed that your little bean hangs in there and all works out.
Thinking of you ((((((((hugs))))))))
Love NN xxx
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