Grr... my hubby and bro are going out to see all my friends. I STUPIDLY said in front of my mum and sister that I wasn't sure I was going and BAM my mother managed to arrange me going over to see my sister for a girly night in. I can't think of anything worse, please, somebody get me out of this!!! Apart from the fact that I won't get to see my friends again now until after the baby is born :( my sister only ever talks about work and as I haven't been at work for the last 4 weeks I've got nothing to talk about... HELP!!!

I have just made some curry, there is a little extra so Ive shipped it over to you on a bike ... you hubby may have to do his part before he goes out though!

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I wish he would you know, he finds it too 'weird', which I get, but it's SO FRUSTRATING!!!

I know how you feel... I only managed to get hubby on board this week! Reminded him that it would be at least 6 wks til after bubs arrives that he would get any action. Plus he is getting impatient now.. hopefully you can convince him!

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how about saying that you told the friends that your partner are going to see that you wasn't going and they let slip how sad they were and were planning 'the last gathering' before you drop and how you feel guilty about not going so have to go and that you will obvioulsy be wanting to see your mum lots and lots with the baby?