after the last few traumatic weeks ,my oh and i resumed activities.(makes it sound very war like) but i was comfortable with it.if im lucky ,im not looking for a replacement baby ,our wee button will always be herself.so its a waiting game.im not silly to think ill get pregnant now ,my af hasnt come yet but i needed to get back to normal as hubbie has been a monk for nearly five months !!!!!!! no joke.so i dont know when ill be testing as i was crazy about that before but now im taking the slow approach.if nothing else it was sooo nice to be close to my oh again.neevvveeerrr want to go through a year like this again.xxxxxxx

good luck with it hun. Bet hubby's a happy boy