Basically as the title suggests!!!! Only been tyring 11 months which I suppose isnt that long but feels like a life time! Have tried everything from basic bding, ovulation tests, pre seed, zestica, smep! Just fed up am starting to think there may be something really wrong as everyone around me seems to just be falling pregnant! I could just cry! Sorry for the rant just want this so much!

have u been to see your gp? i went today for blood tests ect just to make sure everything ok xx

So sorry you are having a tough time right now. I have only been ttc for 1 month this time but it took around 6 months with my dd and i remember feeling the same. Also at that time i swear all i saw were pregnant women everywhere!! It used to drive me mad.
Sorry i am really no use but just wanted to say hang in there, unfortunately it just seems to take some people longer than others.
Hope you get your BFP really soon X

sending big hugs hun, sorry you are feeling like this. we have been trying for 6 months and sometimes it all gets too much. saying that my sis tried for 1 and 1/2 years then fell oregnant. hope you get thst bfp son.xxx

Went to see gp couple of months back when I was in for something else they just made a snide comment about my weight (am 2 stone overweight but already lost 2 and a half) and told me to come back in another 6 months if still having problems. So giving it to January then going back I think. Just all getting on top of me so worried that there is something wrong.

do you test to know when you OV? We tried for 10 months but then tracked OV and had been BD'ing at the wrong time each month!!! got BFP that month but sadly ended in mc, I don't mean it rude in anyway at all but you need to keep your chin up, its know for couples to be trying longer than 12 months.x

hi hunny, do you mind me asking are you charting your temp, mucus and opk's so you know exactly when your ov'ing? are you getting a positive on the opk ? some times as rocky kiz says, it can be down to not knowing when the best time to bd is! or the confusion of a positive opk? xx

Hi

I was ttc for 14 months after coming off the pill and got my bfp 2 weeks ago! Like you i was sure something was wrong but my doc also just told me to lose weight. I did opks and temp charting so know that I bd'd at the right time most cycles so have no idea why suddenly this cycle it was successful.

Hope that gives you a little PMA!

CJ x

I know wht you mean i am month 15 this month and wondering if it will ever happen (((hugs)))

good luvk for this month x gem x

Hi all! thanks for all your replies yes have been using ovulation tests every month and am bding at the right time as well as checing mucus! The only thing I have not done is the temping only because I am getting ovulation pains at exact same time as I am getting positives on tests as well as getting period exactly 14 days after. Do you think I should be taking temps too? Thanks cj28 and congrats you must be over the moon x

Yes, totally. I am fed up with the whole malarkey. Just want to be pregnant, have a totally uneventful pregnancy, then give birth to a healthy baby. Cannot be arsed with this ttc nonsense any longer.