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Why can't AF make up her mind??!!!!

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BabyLuv
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Posted : Nov 04, 2009 5:47:09 PM
Subject : Why can't AF make up her mind??!!!!

Dare I say it but can someone help me see sense please because my emotions have taken over and I am not thinking straight!!!

Ok, I was due AF on Monday according to my cycle length last month. (I know that after mmc your body can go out of sync). Well its now Wednesday and no sign of AF arriving. I was impatient and did a test on Monday as I have felt nauseous and light headed since last week, but it came up negative Sad

When did your cycle return to normal or would you do another test?? I am scared to see another BFN to be honest but also the suspense is killing me lol!!!

Kathy x

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Posted : Nov 04, 2009 5:59:39 PM

I only had one AF in between MC and BFP so can't really give advice re cycles returning to normal. The symptoms sound promising, what tests are you using? I was using cheapies and kept getting BFN so boought Superdrug tests and got BFP. Could it be the test wasn't snsitive enough? I would maybe wait another couple of days and tests again, fingers crossed for you xx

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Posted : Nov 04, 2009 8:00:04 PM

Hi kathy,

Longtime no see how are you my lovely? (apart from the AF saga of course).

I have always found that after the 1st AF they pretty much settle into a routine maybe a day or so out, I would wait mayb till Fri/Sat & see if AF still doesnt show & then do a test.

Good Luck hun xx

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Posted : Nov 04, 2009 8:12:20 PM

Hey there you two,

Laura, I have been off the radar for a while trying to get back into pre-pregnancy routine and ttc like mad of course! How are things with you?

Congrats DM I just caught up with some of the posts and realise that you must be one happy lady! When did you find out? OMG we were on April together maybe we will be July together too!

I just spoke to hubby about it and he said its best to wait a few days before doing another test (I didn't tell him I was already Miss Impatient!!) I don't have the other symptoms that I had last time which is why i'm wondering if its just my body playing games?? Nevermind I will try, try,try to wait a few more days!!

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Posted : Nov 04, 2009 8:23:58 PM

Hi hun that's a good idea, I dont get on as much as I used to these days. We got a puppy to take my mind off ttc LOL she's so cute & doing the trick!!! Im still waiting for AF!! had a bit of a saga little while ago as started getting +ve tests (6-7wks after erpc) had a scan & then they thought I was weird as there was a large vascular area in my uterus anyway the tests got lighter & then had a 3day bleed but still no proper AF!! We've got our follow up appt on 1st Dec so I need AF to hurry so I can get my bloods done in time for the results!!! Anyway sorry I've completley taken over your thread.

I think that's sensible if you can wait for a couple days then re-test, will keep everything crossed for you xxx

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Posted : Nov 04, 2009 8:26:11 PM

Thanks hun would be nice if you could joing me in July. I was naughty and did an early test last Fri and got my BFP, did a CBD at the weekend and got 2-3 weeks so feeling a bit more confident, Although not brave enough to actually join July yet!!

My symptoms have been a bit different this time too so don't worry too much if they're not the same, last time my boobs were heavy and achey where as this time I've had more like shooting pains in them (ouch!!).

Good luck chick xx

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Posted : Nov 05, 2009 10:37:23 AM

Hi there - I am in same boat waiting for AF! I had bleeding from mc about 14-17th Oct and waiting for AF to return to normal, Had pains early this week and thought I'd come on soon which would fit in with my cycle before m/c but no sign! We are not properly TTC but have not been that careful and I had pains the last time and feeling a bit lightheaded. To be honest I am too scared to test and thinking of leaving it and see what happens!

Laujai - you mentioned having acupunture to try and get things back to normal. How was that? I fancy that more that other options if I do need help getting things going.

I feel for everyone - waiting is just so hard!!

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Posted : Nov 06, 2009 7:50:36 AM

It's nice to hear from you guys!
Oh well, I did a test yesterday as hubby couldn't bear to see me walking around with that wishful/daydream look on my face any longer!!! It was a BFN! Even though I promised him I would be ok if it was a no - I'm not! I feel gutted today..
I'm on day 32 of my cycle now and no sign of AF, why???? (I know you all can't answer that really!!!)
xx

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Posted : Nov 06, 2009 8:05:25 AM

Hi Kathy

i know how you feel - i'm CD 29 of a 30(ish) day cycle and had a BFN this am at 13 DPO - if AF is on it's way then i would rather it come now to be honest, can't be doing with all the waiting - nature can be so cruel.

Jodie xx

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Posted : Nov 06, 2009 8:05:19 PM

Boo hiss, boo hiss,....AF turned up this evening! I just need to shake off my bad mood and look forward to next month, hopefully I'll be successful then..
You are so right Jodie nature can be so cruel at times. I'm sorry you got a BFN too...
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Posted : Nov 07, 2009 8:45:30 AM

Gutted she got you matey - wishing you all the best for next month

Jodie xx

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