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PrincessStar
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Posted : Nov 04, 2009 11:03:43 AM
Subject : Sadly leaving you

Hi Ladies

Sadly i am leaving you so soon after joining.
Symptoms have been getting fewer & fewer Over the last few days so I retested with FR this morning & its now BFN.
Im totaly heartbroken, I cant believe its happened to me again when i was so sure it was different this time.
I guess now i will just have to wait for the Bleed to come now.
Im also now very poorly with laringigtus & feel awful.
My world has ended & im never going to be a mom.

Good luck to all you wonderful girls, i hope you all have very H & H PGs & beautiful babies.
Sending you all the luck in the world.xxxxxxxxxxxx

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TTC2009
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Posted : Nov 04, 2009 11:12:47 AM

So sorry this is happening.

One day you will be a mum, i'm a firm believer that things happen for a reason.

We'll see you again soon.

Take care of yourself

x

p.s could it be worth checking with a doctor just to make sure??

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Posted : Nov 04, 2009 11:14:14 AM

oh lovey im so sorry to read this.

have faith,you will be a mum one day,you will!
i have lost 2 babies this year and also felt like you,im now 9+3 PG!!

make sure you get plenty of rest and keep warm xxxx

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Niki_x
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Posted : Nov 04, 2009 11:20:02 AM

So sorry to read this hun, i think you should go to the doctors though and have a blood test. Maybe you got a bfn because your hormones have balanced? xxx

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Posted : Nov 04, 2009 11:28:13 AM

So sorry to hear this chick, but it will happen one day. I too have lost two babies in the last 12 months and am now 22+2.

Hang in there, you will get through this. xxx

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Posted : Nov 04, 2009 11:52:15 AM

Oh sweety this is just awful. I am so sorry and feel your pain.
I know it really does feel like your world has ended and you will never become a mom but that isnt true. But you do need to go through the motions of all your feelings right now so let them out. Have a really good cry, you need to grieve again so don't bottle it up.

The only thing that I can think that has happened is that you had a chemical pregnancy? It would be worth going to the docs still on Friday to go through things. This being the second time round it will help to have it on your records so that they can move things forward to help you more, and of course to help you with what you are going through right now.

Take some time out hon, you need it. Sending you a big warm hug xxx

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granby
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Posted : Nov 04, 2009 12:12:06 PM

oh i am so very sorry to hear this....

keep the faith hun you will be a fantastic mummy very soon...take care xx

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Posted : Nov 04, 2009 1:18:10 PM

just wanted to say im so sorry. my thoughts are with you. one day u will have the baby u want, stay positive and strong.
lots of love
nat xx

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Posted : Nov 04, 2009 2:02:27 PM

I am so sorry PS as I know you have been through a sturggle to get here, sending you lots of love and hoping you will be back in the pg forum soon x

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PrincessStar

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Posted : Nov 04, 2009 3:39:08 PM

Thankyou girls

Im going to see my GP tomorrow about my bad throat so will talk to her about whats gone wrong.
I just wish i could feel positive that i will ever be able to get a sticky bean now. I still have my appointment with my consultant in Dec, i was due to start clomid but im not sure if he will give it me now ive concieved again naturaly for the second time,( it did take 14months).
Do you think it would be more likely for a sticky bean after clomid?
Im just a whirl of WHY ME, WHY WHY WHY?????
Im all over the place so i do apologise. xxxxxxx

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moonbean

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Posted : Nov 04, 2009 4:56:56 PM

no wonder you are all over the place chick, if you dont mind me asking is this the 2nd or 3rd MC??? They may refer you to a MC clinic, re your consultation in December see what your own GP says, is there any reason to tell him in December and get your clomid rather than risking not getting it after all you have been through?? WHat I mean is like myself you dont fall pregnant easily or quickly so its not a matter of give it a month or so and then you'll be pregnant again (not that getting pg quickly after a mc is an advantage as having a mc for any one is awful)

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Posted : Nov 04, 2009 5:51:51 PM

Hi hun,

I am so sorry to read your post. You will be a mum one day but I can understand your negativity at the moment. MCs are just devestating and it is totally understandable that you feel so low. You will get through it though hun and you will have your baby.

I can't answer you about Clomid as it is not something I am familiar with but I really hope that your appt goes well next month.

((((((hugs))))))

Kristen x

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Posted : Nov 04, 2009 8:32:34 PM

((((((((hugs))))))))

I am so sorry.

Love NN xxx

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