Hi girls - I was naughty this month and tested early got my BFP on Friday. AF is due today and am petrified she will appear. I had a chem PG in June and an early MC in Sept. This was our 1st cycle of trying after 2nd MC, it hit me last night that I've gotten Pg 3 times this year and it just shouldn't be possible. I am so scared that this will all go wrong again. Went for a wee and had little pin pricks of blood on tissue. When do you start to trust that things will be fine?

firstly congratulations on your BFP DM, really hope this is a super super sticky BFP for you! If Im completely honest I still havent quite believed it yet that I do have a BFP and Im 10.5 wks pregnant., as you are so early the lil flecks of blood could be implantation??? as for being pregnant 3 times this year, Im in the same boat as you, I had an early MC and a MMC, it gets slightly easier to believe every day, keeping my fingers crossed for you this time love Luc xxx

Hi DM

Congratulations on your BFP! I really hope this one will be super sticky for you and this will be your time.

I know what you mean about not believing you can get pregnant so many times so quickly - out of 6 months TTC we got pregnant 4 of those months! Twice on the second month of trying and twice on the first month. Sadly 3 ended in mc but I am now 29+4 It still feels very surreal and I still can't actually believe it at times.

And I wish I could tell you that you wake up at 12 weeks and stop worrying about mc but for me that didn't happen (no matter how much I thought it would). I then started worrying about late mc and IC and then preterm labour.....there always seems to be something to worry about, but I guess that's parenthood for you

However, having said that I have found it much more reassuring since being able to feel her move.

But there is no reason why this pregnancy won't go well for you and even after several losses things can be ok, as difficult as it seems to be able to believe that.

Love NN 29+4 xxx

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Thanks girls it's comforting to know that it's not just me that worries! Think the little flecks of blood are actually a little scratch on my bits, I had DH have a look (the things we make them do!!) hopefully I'll feel better once I get through today. I've done some cheapie tests today and getting a faint line but thats an improvement on the BFN they gave me Fri morning (the day I got BFP at lunchtime on a Superdrug test) not sure when I'll be able to stop testing like a crazy woman!

Glad things are going well for you both xx

Congratulations on your BFP Dangermouse!
I wouldn't be concerned about having 3 BFPs in such a short space of time. It just means you are super fertile and you and OH oviously have the knack ; )
I really hope this is a sticky one for you and that you have a healthy and happy 9 months. It will be a really anxious time and there's nothing anyone can say which will ease your concerns totally. This forum helps though as there's so many girls here who totally understand all the fears and anxieties that you'll feel over the next few weeks/months.
Take care of yourself, Bex x

Thanks rhr - it does appear that me and hubby are very good at this getting pregnant thing!!

I was just cleaning the bathroom and found an extra CBD lurking (thought I only had 2) so I did that, DH thinks I am absolutely crazy but it has helped as I got http://www3.snapfish.co.uk/thumbnailshare/AlbumID=1744985010/a=2341071010_2341071010/otsc=SHR/otsi=SALBlink/COBRAND_NAME=snapfishuk/
can't believe it last time I only had this at 6 weeks. feeling bit more confident - although still not 100% obviously still going to worry.

2-3wks with a not fmu test when you only just got your bfp? That's fab, you must be making a shedload of hCG!
Gxx

I know Gems I'm sooo hoping this means its my time - can't stop smiling. We're away out for a meal for FIL's birthday today my MIL won't know what hit when I'm all happy after us both crying last time we saw each other!!

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Wishing you all the luck in the world DM, i'm flying high at the mo so i'm sending you loads of my PMA and tonnes of sticky bean dust.
I've said it before - but there seems to be a very lucky streak running through this forum at the moment and we are all due our fair share!!!!!
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I still don't trust my body even at 10+4! I'm hoping I'll relax after the 12 weeks scan and I've reached the 2nd trimester! Wishing you all the luck in the world x

hi hun,

congratulations on your BFP - fantastic news!!

i'm getting there now...but it does take time. your early scan will really help you. also, i found posting on here fantastic! and then all the usual - try to keep busy, remember the statistics are way on our side now, exercise (if you have any energy - i didn't!!) etc.....

i am sure this will be a sticky one for you honey,

congratulations again

kristen x
17+4

Thanks Kristen - wow 17+4 nearly half way there!! great scan pic can't wait to get mine!! Feeling pretty good about this one - still have the odd wobble but getting 2-3 on CBD at 4 weeks has given me loads of PMA.

Congratulations on your BFP DM!

After suffering my first MC 3 weeks ago i dont think that i will ever trust my body until i hold our first LO in my arms. I'm sure this is the same for most women who have suffered a MC or loss.

I think what i would do if i was in your position (and i pray that i will be very very soon!!!) is buy another 2 CBD tests and test the same day on consecutive weeks to ensure you get you 3+ result. This will put your mind at rest until you have an early scan which i presume you will be booked in for (if not i would request this).

I have everything crossed for you and wish you a H & H 9 months and lots and lots of baby dust.

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