Hello ladies, we have lost our baby at 8w1d still waiting for the results from the D&C which will be told to me at my post op. appt on tues morn. at 5w3d i started bleeding, after a trip to the ER had a scan and was found that i had a subchocronic hematoma ( basically a blood clot in the uterus) following the news a had a scan every week to check for a heartbeat, at 7w6d there was barely one there which ended up in a MC and D&C. has anyone had this condition that resulted in the same? the doc. is saying i should wait 3mths untill TTC but i feel that i want to start sooner was just wondering if anyone else has had this condition and concieved right away with no reacurince of the sub.hema.?? also i would love to know what you all do to remember your angel babies, there isnt a minute in the day that i dont think about my little one granted it has only been 1 1/2 weeks sence the D&C but........ thank you all *hugs*

kari

sorry no experience of the haemtoma. just wanted to say sorry to hear your news. I haven't actually bought anything, i'm thinking about a rose bush in the spring. some of the other ladies have bought some lovely bracelets and necklaces with pendants that mean something personal to them. Others have bought little sculptures. I guess it depends if you want something in your home, or something you always have with you.

also come join us all in ttc after mc, even if you do end up waiting a few months, come join us before. it's a busier forum, with lots of girls to look after each other.
Gems
xx

Sorry for your loss - like gems I've not had experience of a haemotoma so can't really give any help / advice there.

It's totally uderstandable to be thinking of your lost angel - it may not seem like it now but although you'll never forget it does get easier with time. I bought a Willow Tree ornament called Remember for my lost lil beans and have found it hugely comforting just having it in the house.

Big (((hugs))) to you hope you feel stronger and get your answers soon xx

thank you ladies for your responses, i greatly appriciate them. going to the doc.tues for the report about what all went wrong with my little one dont know if i should be nervious or anxious?

As my MC's were both earlier and passed naturally I've never had tests to see what was wrong with lil bean - I guess at least you'll get an answer instead of wondering what wewnt wrong. Hope Tues goes ok for you xx